As 2022 comes to a close (who can believe it?), I find myself reflecting on the year past, and also planning for the year ahead. 2022 has certainly has its
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As 2022 comes to a close (who can believe it?), I find myself reflecting on the year past, and also planning for the year ahead. 2022 has certainly has its…
Continue Reading Top 10 Divorce Trends in 2022In a new, published (precedential) decision, J.G. v. J.H., Judge Koblitz, of the Appellate Division confirmed and explicitly held what we all should have known before: No matter what…
Continue Reading New Published (Precedential) New Jersey Appellate Division Decision Confirms that all Custody and Parenting Time Decisions Are Created Equal
Americans are almost obsessed with the ideal that government should be entirely separated from any religion. Indeed, the term “separation of church and state”—a quote from Thomas Jefferson—is the most…
Continue Reading BUT WHAT ABOUT THE FIRST AMENDMENT? A FAMILY COURT’S ROLE IN RESOLVING RELIGIOUS DISPUTES BETWEEN PARENTS
Let’s be honest – articles about Tom Cruise’s lifestyle are never dull, especially those pertaining to his religious beliefs. His divorce last year from Katie Holmes was, and continues to…
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Oftentimes during a divorce proceeding, the issues of custody and parenting time are resolved early on in the case. There is nothing stopping parties from drafting a final agreement detailing…
Continue Reading THE IMPROPER INTERTWINING OF CUSTODY AND FINANCES: A SETTLEMENT TABOO
I suspect that anyone that read my last blog might think that I am against shared custody or that I believe it to be impossible. That is not the case. Rather, my point in that post was to address possibly bad faith requests for joint custody by those people who have historically neither spent a lot of time with the children nor did much of the actual parenting.
But shared parenting time is not an impossibility. Supposedly, it requires parents who have the ability to communicate and cooperate. That said, I have seen parents who cannot have a civil word with each other effectively co-parent.
Shared parenting, by New Jersey standards, is anything between 28% (104 overnights) and 50% of the overnights with the children. Curiously, these definitions actually stem from the child support guidelines. When the newest iteration of the Guidelines came into being in 1997 or 1998, they had two different worksheets – a sole parenting worksheet and a shared parenting worksheet (104 overnights and over). While non-custodial parents now got child support reductions with each overnight, the credit was greater using a shared parenting worksheet. As a result of the new guidelines, negotiations over additional overnights began, in many cases for obvious reasons.Continue Reading Shared Custody – It is a Possibility
The online edition of today’s New York Post reported that Tiger Woods and his wife Elin have resolved the issue of custody.
The details were not really set forth in…
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A long standing problem for matrimonial attorneys has been the calculation of child support in situations in which two parents have equal physical custody of children. The Court Rules tell us that when the combined net income of the two parents is $187,200 or below, the Guidelines must be utilized as a rebuttable presumption for child support. Practice tells us that the Guidelines are rarely deviated from in this income category.
The Child Support Guidelines are predicated on the supposition that there are three types of expenditures that parents make for or on behalf of their children.. The first is fixed expenses (representing 38% of the child support amount) are those expenses incurred even when the child is not residing with the parent. Examples of this include housing-related expenses, such as mortgage or rent, utilities, household furnishings and household care items. The second is variable expenses (representing 37% of the child support amount). Variable expenses are incurred only when the child is with the parent. This category includes items such as transportation and food. Finally, controlled expenses (representing 25% of the child support amount) are those expenses which include items like clothing, personal care, entertainment and other miscellaneous items.
The Guidelines presume that each parent has fixed and variable expenses on behalf of the child. On the other hand, the Guidelines also presume that controlled expenses are ONLY incurred by the parent who is designated the “Parent of Primary Residence.” However, in a true joint custody scenario, neither parent is the Parent Primary Residence and both have controlled expenses. The calculation of child support in these cases has been problematic for many years and there has been little consistency as to the child support awards in these cases. On April 13, 2009, a published trial court decision was handed down in which there is a specific formula to determine child support.
Continue Reading FINALLY! A child support formula for joint physical custody cases!
A lot of times clients come in saying that they want full or sole custody of the children. This inevitably leads to a discussion regarding the distinctions between legal and…
Continue Reading Sole vs. Joint Legal Custody – Is It Worth Fighting About?