Last week, the news reported the decision in the custody case involving Miami Heat guard, Dwyane Wade’s, children, after one of the longest custody trials ever in Cook County.  Apparently, a large part of Mr. Wade’s decision to seek sole custody of his children was allegations regarding his wife’s alienating behavior.  In the decision issued by Judge Renee G. Goldfarb, the Judge held:

This court finds that (Siohvaughn Wade) has embarked on an unstoppable and relentless pattern of conduct for over two years to alienate the children from their father, and lacks either the ability or the willingness to facilitate, let alone encourage, a close and continuing relationship between them.

We have previously blogged many times on issues regarding parental alienation.  Though I do not believe that it has yet occur ed, we discussed the movement to have "Parental Alienation Syndrome" included as a diagnoses in the new edition of the DSM. We have also discussed programs that deal with parental alienation as well as different cases addressing whether there can be tort liability for parental alienation.

What the Wade case shows is that when a parent embarks upon a course of conduct to alienate children from the other parent, and shows little desire, if not an utter inability to foster and encourage a relationship between the children and the other parent, that parent risks losing custody.  Parents divorce each other.  They don’t divorce the children.  We cannot ignore the danger of harm to the children when a parent seeks to prevent or destroy the children’s relationship with the other parent.  The research is clear that children need both parents in their life.  However, when a parent seeks to destroy the children’s relationship with the other parent, they risk having their own time with the children limited in order to mitigate and/or prevent the opportunity for further damage being caused.

The results of parental alienation can be tragic.  It is encouraging to see a court take it seriously and spend sufficient time exploring the issue.

3 Responses to Alienating Conduct a Large Factor in the Dwyane Wade Custody Case

Kudos to the judge in this case for recognizing the alienating behavior and having the guts to make the non-traditional decision. Kudos should also go to Mr. Wayne’s lawyer for learning the best way to present a parental alienation case to the court. Finally, kudos to Mr. Wayne for publicly stating that his children still need their mother and he hopes that she will move past her issues and become a healthy presence in the children’s lives.


mike jeffries

It is a crime against humanity when a parent uses the child to punish the other parent. Their child(ren) pays the ultimate price in this pain. I recently read “A Kidnapped Mind” and the above book, “A Family’s Heartbreak” I recommend both. My situation similar over 4 years now. Even with overwhelming evidence it is ignored. I know family court can be unfair/unjust especially when money or connections play in favor. In my case the judge separated blood siblings. The fathers words, “I’ll destroy you. You take the girl and I’ll take the boy, we’ll call it 50/50” And he’s got exactly what he wanted and isn’t present for his daughter and keeps our son/brother away and angry. Our judges should be wise in subjects presided over. We would stand for a GI specialist doing brain surgery. Why do courts get away with it?

As someone who has witnessed firsthand the devastation alienation efforts by one parent against the other, I wholeheartedly support and hope for continuing progress. Cudos to this judge, though, it seems, sadly, that it is open season on males/fathers and its not PC to give much credit to fathers or even credibility.
It takes someone with a sick mind who would purposely do this to their own child. It demonstrates they do not love the judge as they say they do or they would stop.

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