In the last several years, I have noticed a shift in the attitudes of judges and lawyers towards women who have spent a long term marriage working within the home
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In the last several years, I have noticed a shift in the attitudes of judges and lawyers towards women who have spent a long term marriage working within the home…
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I just completed a 10 or so day trial (really a binding arbitration). Why did it take so long? Were there complicated valuation issues? No. Complicated alimony issues? No. Custody issues? No – custody and parenting time were already settled.
The answer in large part was one party’s bad faith and need to extract a pound of flesh. He did not get his pound of flesh and while we await the decision, I doubt he will receive satisfaction there either?
Some examples of the nonsense. The case started in 2006 when real estate was at its height and the marital home was appraised by a joint appraiser in early 2007. The case lingered and trial did not start until the fall 2009. Despite the fact that the law is clear that homes are valued at the date of distribution, the husband opposed a new appraisal. Why – as every knows, real estate values were going down. Since he knew that the wife wanted to keep the house, he was trying to use this to his advantage. Due to the delays, the wife had to get an updated appraisal in January 2008 when the was originally supposed to occur. She had to get another one in August 2008 before the trial started. The husband held out and opposed using the joint appraiser, costing the parties more money for experts and then wasting a day trying the issue of the value of the home.
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