A lot of people believe that COVID has caused divorce cases to drag and the legal system to be ground to a halt – or at least, to lag behind. While that is certainly the case in some counties and more particularly, with some Judges, for the most part, the courts are acting efficiently, and
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Thoughts On Moving Cases Forward In Light of the Impact of Coronavirus
Prior to the current coronavirus pandemic and resulting shelter in place orders, in many counties, there was already serious backlogs. What that means is that trial dates were hard to come by and even motions were scheduled to be heard months after they were filed. While the courts are not currently closed, they aren’t exactly…
The Inability or Refusal to Settle By the Lawyer, Not the Litigant
In one of the earliest posts I did on this blog going back ten years or more, I posited that you can only really settle when the time is right and when both parties are ready. In fact, I felt then as I feel now, that you can make your best offer, if not an…
Know Your Mediator
There is an old adage in litigation “know your judge.” Essentially what that means is that you should find out as much as you can about the judge you are appearing in front of both so you can try to understand what the outcome might be but more importantly, so that you can may a…
Don’t Let Your Arbitration Agreement Bite You
You hear people talk all the time these days that mediation and arbitration, or quite frankly, any alternate dispute resolution (ADR) methods are the best things since sliced bread. They may very well be in the right case – which these days may be most of them given judicial backlogs, and other factors making presenting…
Beware Legal Whack A Mole
Sometimes, instead of practicing family law, it feels like we are playing a game of legal Whack A Mole. You know what Whack A Mole is, right? For those who don’t, it is the carnival game where the player has a mallet and has to hit the mole that pops up. As soon as you…
“Conscious Uncoupling”: An Ode to a Mediated Divorce
As a lover of all things Coldplay, I was sad to hear that lead singer Chris Martin and his wife of more than 10 years, Gwyneth Paltrow, were divorcing. Gwyneth Paltrow announced the separation on her website Goop.com and used the term “conscious uncoupling” to describe their approach to divorce. Although the term had been…
The Expert Is Not The Quarterback: Don’t Let Them Stand in the Way of Settlement
In many cases, experts are a necessary, if not invaluable asset to have on your team. Often, they are not only needed to provide the necessary financial calculations (e.g. business valuation, calculating true income/cash flow, lifestyle analyses, tax calculations, alimony and child support scenarios, etc.), they can often help with the negotiation of issues relating…
Judges Are Supposed To Decide Matters Ripe for Decision – Not Send It To Mediation – Shocking!?!
We have all had this happen. Letters get written back and forth to try to settle a matter and/or you just file a motion because the issue is clear based upon the law and the facts. Or, the parties, for whatever reason, just wont resolve an issue because one or both is being unreasonable. So…
The Benefits of Mediation – Even If You Don’t Settle
Earlier today, Robert Epstein posted an interesting piece entitled The Psychology of Mediation. Whether people like it or not, alternative dispute resolution (ADR) is here to stay as the new norm. Court backlogs are long and trial dates are scarce, even when you want them. Moreover, the system is set up to have numerous…