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Several months ago, I posted a blog entry entitled "All Cases Have a Life of Their Own"  To view that entry click here.  The premise was that while most cases settle, they usually will not settle until both parties are ready, emotionally and otherwise, to move on.  That may be the case even if a party's best case resolution is on the table from the outset.  If they are not ready to settle at that time, they will not.

In a more rare occasion, a party is never ready emotionally to settle and a case just has to get tried.  That is unfortunately the case in a matter that I have that is going to trial next week.  Because of the other party's mind set, my adversary has for many months told me that the case would be tried.  He did not tell me this as a threat or to get leverage - just as a fact.  In fact, a settlement proposal we made has been pending for about a year without a response.  In addition, no bona fide efforts were made by the other side to settle at either the Early Settlement Panel, mandatory economic mediation or the Intensive Settlement Conference.  During the party's recent deposition, he said that "it was too late" to settle, once my client hired an attorney. 

Obviously, this is no consolation to my client who has been eager to try to resolve this matter from the start.   Hopefully, the remedy will be a generous award of counsel fees at the end of the trial to compensate my client for having to endure the husband's conduct which has been nothing short of unreasonable, if not bad faith.

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Previously I blogged about the fact that cases have a life of their own and will only settle when both parties are ready.  As I was trying to settle a case today that is scheduled to start trial in Morris County next week, I was reminded of a related issue.

In this case, we have had a hard time getting the other side to negotiate.  They have taken a position that we don't think is reasonable nor supported by the facts or the law.  That said, we have made proposals to try to resolve the case.  In fact, at each time we have been required to negotiate (at the Early Settlement Panel, mandatory economic mediation (several sessions) and at an Intensive Settlement Conference), we have made proposals.  In some ways, it was against my normal practice to not bid against myself, but the client wanted to at least try to stir some movement. 

At each point, rather than provide a counter proposal, the other side has tried to wow us with, to put it nicely, "fuzzy math" in order to justify why they are right and we are wrong.  They have never, however, moved off of their proposal on support in any significant way. 

I finally had to tell the opposing counsel to just give me a number without the explanation or argument because I wasn't going to buy their theory, ever, and the theory didn't make a difference if the number was acceptable.

In fact, this is not unusual when trying to settle matters.  That is, sometimes the theories and explanations will bog things down.  The bottom line is that if  the parties agree on the number or a certain resolution of a non-financial issue, in many instances, it matters not at all how or why you got to that number.  In fact, the explanation may just start the argument again. 

Sometimes, it is more important to just give a number than explain how you got there.  If the number is fair and within the realm of reason, and the parties can live with it, it is sometimes better to be settled then win the debate which may only prove more costly.

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