Divorce in Your Sixties - Is Permanent Alimony the Right Result?

Wikipedia defines grey divorce as a "term referring to the demographic trend of an increasing divorce rate for older ("grey-haired") couples in long-lasting marriages."  Now while "grey divorces" of a short or mid length marriage provide challenges for a divorce attorney, many believe that divorces of long term marriages are easy.  Just whack up the assets 50-50, agree to permanent alimony and call it a day, right?  That is not an uncommon result, but does it really make sense to do so and not consider real life anticipated events such as retirement and the receipt of Social Security, to name just two. 

Typically, when marriages are longer than 20 years, the concept of permanent alimony seems like a no brainer.  When the parties are in their sixties (or maybe even late fifties) does this make sense?  What if the parties always discussed and agreed that at age 65, the husband was going to retire and planned and lived their life accordingly?  Now, at age 61, either party seeks a divorce (I was going to say the wife - but it really doesn't matter).  Should this be a permanent alimony case? The default answer is yes but should there be more critical analysis to this? 

In this case, we can assume that all of the assets will be divided 50-50, except perhaps a business asset.  Even then, while business assets are usually disproportionately divided, for longer marriages, the non-titled spouse gets more than they would have in a shorter marriage (the fairness of this may be the subject of another post.)  In addition, it is likely that the amount of alimony afforded will not allow the payor to save substantially before the divorce and a normal retirement age in a few years hence.

If the agreement does not account for retirement, aren't the parties just buying themselves more litigation in a few years?  Should consideration be given to allowing for retirement and the termination of alimony any time after retirement age without the need to litigate?  If that is the case and someone still works full time after the agreed upon retirement age, should alimony continue? 

As noted recently, the proposed alimony reform  bill is calling for automatic termination of alimony when someone gets to the age of retirement as determined by Social Security.  Is this fair if that person keeps working full time?

Several years ago, I had a case where the husband sold his business, but signed an agreement to remain with the company for up to three years (and he had a contract that said he would be paid for 3 years - even if they let him go sooner.)  He was probably close to 60 at the time of the sale.  He and his wife had agreed that once either the contract was over or they let him go, that they were going to retire and move to the shore house.  Half way into the contract, the wife filed for divorce and sought permanent alimony, up to the day of trial.  The case ultimately settled just prior to trial when the trial judge learned that the wife admitted at her deposition that the family plan, was in fact, that the husband would retire as noted above.  The judge made it pretty clear that permanent alimony was not going to happen here.  Unfortunately, it took more than a year of litigation to get to that point. 

Also, if one or both of the parties are going to be getting Social Security soon, that factor should at least be considered, though it may or may not make a difference.  If a pension is going to be divided that is going to be providing monthly benefits to each party in short order, that too may be something to be considered.

In short, fairness seems to dictate that these things and retirement at least be discussed and some common sense be applied when settling grey divorces after long term marriages.

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Eric Solotoff is the editor of the New Jersey Family Legal Blog and the Co-Chair of the Family Law Practice Group of Fox Rothschild LLP. Certified by the Supreme Court of New Jersey as a Matrimonial Lawyer and a Fellow of the American Academy of Matrimonial Attorneys, Eric practices in Fox Rothschild's Roseland, New Jersey office though he practices throughout New Jersey. You can reach Eric at (973)994-7501, or esolotoff@foxrothschild.com.

Just Because An Adult Child Lives at Home, Does Not Mean Child Support Continues

The number of college graduates living with their parents has almost doubled since 2007. Currently, over 45% of 26-year-olds live at home with their parents. The figures highlight the difficulty that many young Americans have had in establishing careers following the longest recession this country has faced since the Great Depression. Some children, although employed, simply lack the funds to move out and may remain with their parents, even well into their twenties.

 

As a Matrimonial Attorney, these staggering statistics present an interesting question as to a non-custodian’s obligation to continue contributing to the support of a child, though a college graduate and/or employed, is still ostensibly supported by his or her parents; at least with regard to shelter expenses.

 

In New Jersey, a parent is under no duty to contribute to the support of an emancipated child. In deciding whether to emancipate a child, a Court will generally examine whether the child has “moved beyond the sphere of parental influence.” When a child moves beyond the sphere of influence and responsibility exercised by a parent and obtains an independent status on his or her own, generally he or she will be deemed emancipated. As mentioned above, a curious situation presents itself where the child should be self-supporting, but the economy prevents him or her from obtaining lucrative employment.

 

A similar, yet instructive, situation was the topic of a recent (unreported) decision by the Appellate Division in Gall v. Gall. In Gall, the parties’ son, Brian, lived at home and intended to enroll as a full time student in the future. He worked full time, paid for his personal expenses including gasoline, clothes and food outside the home. However, his earnings were insufficient to allow him to move out of his mother’s home.

 

The trial court declined to emancipate Brian and awarded child support pursuant to the Child Support Guidelines. In addition, the non-custodial father was required to contribute toward Brian’s college expenses. The non-custodial father appealed.

 

While the Appellate Division “agree[d] in theory that a full-time college student is not emancipated as there is no ‘fixed age’ for emancipation…” it further found that because Brian was employed full-time and was only a part-time student, he should have been deemed emancipated. As a result, the Court reversed the order of child support as to Brian. In doing so, the Appellate Division set forth a bright line (although non-precedential) rule of thumb: “…a child over the age of eighteen, working full-time, and attending school only part-time, absent some unusual circumstances…is emancipated even if residing with a parent because his or her employment income is alleged to be insufficient to allow the child to live independently.”


 

The Discovery Dance

Some times, the most basic part of the case, discovery, can often be the most frustrating part.  In most cases, some amount of discovery is needed to do the due diligence necessary to bring a matter to its conclusion with some sense of comfort that the issues have been adequately addressed.  In complex cases, especially cases where there are businesses and other significant assets to value, the failure to complete discovery often stops a case in its tracks.  I have a few cases now where the business owner is simply stonewalling discovery. 

 

In your typical case, you may serve interrogatories (written questions to be answered under oath) and a document request.  Though per court rules, the responses are due in 60 and 45 days respectively, the rules are most often honored in the breach.  Is it right?  No.  But most people figure that they can get away with ignoring the rules because the deadlines to answer will be set at the first Case Management Conference.  And even when you complain that your discovery is now over due or due shortly, inevitably, the deadline is set for 60 days in the future, give or take.

 

Then what happens.  People ignore the new deadline.  When you finally get the discovery, you often get half-hearted, incomplete answers and some but usually not all of the documents requested.  While many banks and credit card companies let you go on line and print out a year or several years of past records, and certainly will provide them to you when you ask, most people don't ask and just send an incomplete production which only serves to delay the process and cost both people more money (they don't think about that when the complain that the process takes too long and costs too much).  They may offer to sign authorizations so that you can get the documents yourself.  More delay - more expense shifted to the other side. In response to the weak answers, sometimes you may serve a request for more specific answers, only to get more drivel, if you get a response at all.

 

This is the discovery dance.    Several months go by and basic information still isn't exchanged.  Sometimes it is so late in the game that a judge says you can't do any more discovery.  As we have blogged before, where someone has sandbagged a case, that argument shouldn't fly.

So what do you do?  Do you make a motion to compel only to anger the judge who is already over burdened?  Do you just take a deposition and force the issue on a record? When you do make the motion, the other side will file a knee jerk cross motion concocting things that your client didn't provide.  I have a case now where there have been three orders compelling the discovery, some of which has been due for more than a year.  Each time we go to court to get the things we have been waiting for for months, the other side makes demands for more and more things - as if there is some equivalency with the demands that have been outstanding for a year vs. theirs that have been outstanding for a few days (typically made knowing that you will be returning to court so better to say that you need information from the other side too.  The discovery dance in action again.

 

To avoid the dance, I often serve subpoenas early in a case to get bank, brokerage, credit card, employment/income/benefit/deferred compensation information directly from the source.  While the up front cost may be greater, the ultimate cost in curtailing some of the discovery dance is usually less.  But you can't always get everything directly, especially when you want to get the records of the other party's business. 

 

But if you have to make the motion, make sure you clearly set forth what you asked for, when you asked for it, and what was and wasn't produced.  If you (or your expert) really need something, don't settle for no.  If the other side wont produce it, ask the court to make adverse inference and preclude the other side from offering contrary evidence. 

 

Bottom line, if you are forced to dance, be the better dancer.

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Eric Solotoff is the editor of the New Jersey Family Legal Blog and the Co-Chair of the Family Law Practice Group of Fox Rothschild LLP. Certified by the Supreme Court of New Jersey as a Matrimonial Lawyer and a Fellow of the American Academy of Matrimonial Attorneys, Eric practices in Fox Rothschild's Roseland, New Jersey office though he practices throughout New Jersey. You can reach Eric at (973)994-7501, or esolotoff@foxrothschild.com.
 

Custody - Back to Basics

Yesterday, my post on this blog was called "Alimony - Back to Basics."  Just like with alimony, over the years, we have had dozens of posts on this blog about custody and parenting issues.  However, just like with alimony, there are statutory factors that the court, as well as the custody experts, must consider when making decisions (for judges) or recommendations (for experts) related to custody and parenting time.

The following is a refresher on the custody factors set forth in N.J.S.A. 9:2-4 that must be considered:

1. the parents' ability to agree, communicate and cooperate in matters relating to the child;

2. the parents' willingness to accept custody and any history of unwillingness to allow parenting time not based on substantiated abuse;

3. the interaction and relationship of the child with its parents and siblings;

4. the history of domestic violence, if any;

5. the safety of the child and the safety of either parent from physical abuse by the other parent;

6. the preference of the child when of sufficient age and capacity to reason so as to form an intelligent decision;

7. the needs of the child;

8. the stability of the home environment offered;

9. the quality and continuity of the child's education;

10. the fitness of the parents;

11. the geographical proximity of the parents' homes;

12. the extent and quality of the time spent with the child prior to or subsequent to the separation;

13. the parents' employment responsibilities;

14. and the age and number of the children.

These factors are not all inclusive but represent the minimum of what must be considered.  After you decide that you wish to seek custody (or perhaps before you decide to jump into that battle) you should go down each of these factors and review, as objectively as possible, how they would apply to your case.

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Eric Solotoff is the editor of the New Jersey Family Legal Blog and the Co-Chair of the Family Law Practice Group of Fox Rothschild LLP. Certified by the Supreme Court of New Jersey as a Matrimonial Lawyer and a Fellow of the American Academy of Matrimonial Attorneys, Eric practices in Fox Rothschild's Roseland, New Jersey office though he practices throughout New Jersey. You can reach Eric at (973)994-7501, or esolotoff@foxrothschild.com.

Parent's rights under the Hague Convention Upheld

An interesting case was recently decided by the United Supreme Court involving an international custody dispute, which has particular relevance for members of the military. For the case, click here. When there are allegations of parental kidnapping, or an unlawful removal of children to another country, there is an international treaty, known has the The Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction which provides an expeditious method intended to return a child removed by a parent from one member nation to another.   The primary intention of the Convention is to maintain the custody arrangement which existed immediately before an alleged wrongful removal thereby deterring a parent from crossing international boundaries in search of a more sympathetic court. The Convention applies only to children under the age of 16.

Unfortunately, not all countries are signatories to the treaty (most notably, the majority of Middle Eastern countries are not). However, those that are give litigants an important process to be heard when a child is unlawfully taken. The core premise of the Hague Convention is that custody disputes should be resolved in what is known as the child’s “habitual residence.” Recently, a father who had been denied relief by an American Court when it was found that Scotland was the habitual residence of his daughter had his case reinstated by the United States Supreme Court.   

 

The Hague Conventions requires the judicial or administrative authority of a signatory country to order a child returned to his or her country of habitual residence if the authority finds that the child has been wrongfully removed to or retained in the contracting country. The International Child Abduction Remedies Act (the name of the United States law which implements the Convention in the United States) also requires defendants to pay various expenses incurred by plaintiffs associated with the return of children. Generally, once a child has been return to his or her country of habitual residence, the case is considered concluded. However, this can, as the Supreme Court concluded, lead to inequities.         

 In this case Mr. Chafin, a United States citizen and member of the military, had married Ms. Chafin, a United Kingdom citizen, in Germany, where they later had a daughter, E. C. When Mr. Chafin was deployed to Afghanistan, Ms. Chafin took E. C. to Scotland. Mr. Chafin was later transferred to Huntsville, Alabama, and Ms. Chafin eventually traveled there with E. C. Soon after Ms. Chafin’s arrival, Mr. Chafin filed for divorce and child custody in Alabama. Ms. Chafin was subsequently deported, but E. C. remained in Alabama with Mr. Chafin.

Later, Ms. Chafin filed a petition under the Convention in which she sought the return of E. C. to Scotland. The United States District Court concluded that E. C.’s country of habitual residence was Scotland (as that is where she had lived when Mr. Chafin was in Afghanistan) and granted the petition for return. Ms. Chafin immediately departed for Scotland with E. C. Ms. Chafin then initiated custody proceedings in Scotland and was granted interim custody and a preliminary injunction prohibiting Mr. Chafin from removing E. C. from Scotland. Mr. Chafin appealed the District Court’s order, but the Eleventh Circuit dismissed the appeal as moot, on the ground that once a child has been returned to a foreign country, a U. S. court becomes powerless to grant relief. Mr. Chafin was then ordered to reimburse Ms. Chafin for court costs, attorney’s fees, and travel expenses. Essentially, Mr Chafin was being denied his right to appeal a court’s order.

 

The Supreme Court held that the return of a child to a foreign country pursuant to a Convention return order does not render an appeal of that order moot. The Justices realized that because the Chafins continue to vigorously contest the question of where their daughter will be raised, this dispute is very much alive. Mr. Chafin sought typical appellate and his claim for his daughter’s return cannot be dismissed as so implausible that it is insufficient to preserve jurisdiction, and his prospects of success are therefore not pertinent to the mootness inquiry. Finally, the Court noted the Convention’s mandate of prompt return and ensuring that each case will receive the individualized treatment necessary for appropriate consideration of the child’s best interests.

 

These cases demonstrate the ways in which a parent can look to the courts, even outside of our borders, when a child has been taken. As we line in a society in which international marriage and travel becomes more and more common, these situations similarly become more common. Facts, such as in this case, when a child is removed when a member of the military is deployed for extended periods of time, are being litigated throughout the country and the law can expected to evolve.

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Jennifer Weisberg Millner is a partner at Fox Rothschild, and a member of the firm’s Family Law Group. She is resident in the Princeton Office though she practices throughout the state.  

Alimony Modification - A Judge's Checklist

Most people are aware that a supporting spouse may be entitled to modify an alimony obligation upon a showing of “changed circumstances.” However, many people do not know that the “leg-work” that they have to do to set themselves up to succeed on such a Motion begins long before the parties ever go to Court, especially if a supporting spouse is asking for relief on the basis of a purported job loss or reduction in income.

Below is a non-exhaustive list of items that a Judge will look for when a supporting spouse is requesting to reduce his or her alimony obligations:

• Has the applicant proven that his/her circumstances have changed such that he/she would be entitled to a child support or alimony reduction - Common scenarios constituting changed circumstances include:
       o A reduction in a party's income;
       o Illness;
       o Retirement;
       o The receipt of an influx of liquid assets;
       o Cohabitation of the supported spouse.

It is always a good idea to keep termination records, communications with a former employer, evidence of any severance package, any doctors’ reports and notes if the applicant is alleging a reduction in income because of illness, as well as documentation regarding assets, debts, and expenses.

• Has the party seeking modification proven that his/her changed circumstances are permanent - The lack of permanence of a supporting spouse’s circumstances standing alone can be a sufficient basis upon which to deny an application to modify support. The New Jersey Supreme Court has held that a spouse’s temporary unemployment was insufficient to justify a child support modification.

To aid the Court in this analysis, the supporting spouse should gather any documentation that would prove that a change is more than temporary, for example, articles or other sources regarding a permanent downturn to the individual’s chosen profession.

• Whether the change was involuntary or voluntary - If the applicant fails to establish that he or she is involuntarily underemployed, the trial judge may impute prior earnings, which are evident of capacity to earn. The applicant should be aware that if he or she quits his or her job or accepts lower paying employment, that party will not be permitted to avoid his or her obligation to pay support regardless of a finding of any good or bad faith in the employment change. Similar principles apply where, although the initial change in employment may be involuntary, the party nevertheless decides not to remedy the situation.

An example of what the Court may be looking for is records kept by the application of a job search. This will enable the Court to form a reasonable basis to conclude that the party undertook steps to remedy his or her situation.

• Whether the applicant has provided evidence that he or she has made efforts to mitigate any perceived losses – It is not enough that a supporting spouse demonstrate a reduction in income; the obligor must also demonstrate how he or she has attempted to improve the diminishing circumstances. In other words, a supporting spouse has an obligation to find employment that will not produce a diminished earning capacity to the detriment of the payee spouse.

Some examples of what the Court may be looking for are: evidence as to the names of persons contacted that would aid in the mitigation of losses; the frequency of such calls; other jobs applied for; potential certification degrees to advance marketability to make up for any lost income, etc.

Obviously, the facts of a specific case will require that an applicant produce evidence that is tailored to the relief they are requesting. However, the above is just a glimpse in to the threshold analysis - a check-list so to speak - that a Court likely will undertake before a supporting spouse ever steps foot in to the Courthouse. Keeping impeccable records is therefore of the utmost importance in the months that precede such an application to modify support. Without the necessary evidence, your application may fail as a threshold matter.

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Eliana T. Baer is a frequent contributor to the New Jersey Family Legal Blog and a member of the Family Law Practice Group of Fox Rothschild LLP. Eliana practices in Fox Rothschild's Princeton, New Jersey office and focuses her state-wide practice on representing clients on issues relating to divorce, equitable distribution, support, custody, adoption, domestic violence, premarital agreements and Appellate Practice. You can reach Eliana at (609) 895-3344, or etbaer@foxrothschild.com.

The Term and Amount of Limited Duration Alimony Can Really be Modified? ...Really?

As a continuation to my alimony-themed posts, the particular issue that is the subject of this blog post may come as a surprise to some supporting spouses; namely, the fact that the term and amount of a limited duration alimony obligation can be lengthened in some rare circumstances.

New Jersey Courts do have authority to modify the amount and term limited duration alimony. In the case of modifications of limited duration alimony, the alimony statute, N.J.S.A. 2A:34-23(c), provides as follows:

An award of alimony for a limited duration may be modified based either upon changed circumstances, or upon the nonoccurrence of circumstances that the court found would occur at the time of the award. The court may modify the amount of such an award, but shall not modify the length of the term except in unusual circumstances.

Rothfeld v. Rothfeld (App. Div. 2008), while unpublished, is just one example of this portion of the statute in action. In Rothfeld, the parties divorced after an approximately seven (7) year marriage. They had two (2) children: Jonathan, who was born on September 19, 1996; and Martin, who was born on September 15, 1998. Both parties were members of the New Jersey Bar and the husband had an active private practice. The wife had not returned to active practice, however, as a result of her parenting obligations with respect to the children, particularly Jonathan, which had prevented her from doing so.

In reaching their divorce settlement, the parties agreed upon “limited duration alimony” in the amount of $500 per week for four years, effective April 1, 2003. According to the wife, at the time the PSA was negotiated, “it was assumed that [she] would be able to obtain per diem work in the law field.”

At the time the PSA was negotiated and signed, Jonathan was approximately six and a half years old. He was having some difficulties in school; and there was some concern that he might have attention deficit disorder. In the years following the divorce, he was diagnosed with the following disorders: (1) attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder; (2) obsessive-compulsive disorder; (3) Asperger's disorder (a form of autism); and (4) bipolar disorder. As a consequence of his various disorders, Jonathan took multiple medications and was treated by several mental health professionals on a regular basis. As his disorders developed and progressed, Jonathan's conduct, both at school and at home, became progressively more problematic. In 2007, he was transferred from public school to a non-residential special needs school.

The wife’s increased responsibilities with respect to Jonathan had prevented her from obtaining any significant employment. It appeared from the record that the parties contemplated that the wife would continue to perform parental duties, but would also begin to obtain at least some per diem work as an attorney.

The wife filed a post-judgment motion seeking the following relief: (1) the continuation of alimony until Jonathan graduates from high school; (2) an increase of the alimony to $800 per week; (3) the production of updated financial information; (4) an increase in child support if the court denied relief with respect to the alimony; (5) the establishment of a fund for Jonathan's care after he reaches age eighteen; and (6) counsel fees. The husband opposed the motion, arguing that the wife was bound by the PSA, which they had both agreed was fair and equitable at the time they executed it, and that she had not sufficiently demonstrated an inability to work part-time.

On May 4, 2007, he entered an order denying all of the requested relief, except for the request that the husband supply his current financial information. The wife appealed.

The Appellate Division reversed, finding the wife had made a prima facie case for (1) an increase in the amount of the limited duration alimony based upon “changed circumstances”; and (2) an extension of the length of the term based upon “unusual circumstances,” both pursuant to N.J.S.A. 2A:34-23(c), and ordered a plenary hearing.

Specifically, the Appellate Division believed that the wife made a sufficient prima facie showing that Jonathan's current mental-health condition was not anticipated at the time of the divorce. Although it appeared that, at the time the PSA was being negotiated, there was some manifestation of behavioral problems at school, which were attributed to the possibility of attention-deficit disorder, his later diagnoses of Asperger's disorder and bipolar disorder presented significantly more serious disorders with potentially greater impact on Jonathan's life, as well as the wife’s as his parent of primary residence.

While the Appellate Division further agreed that the wife’s proofs with respect to her efforts to find employment were slim, at best, it was noted that there was sufficient support in the record, primarily in the wife’s certification, to warrant further judicial inquiry into her assertion that her parenting duties related to Jonathan's behavioral issues precluded either the anticipated employment as a per diem workers' compensation attorney or some other form of employment.

On remand, the court rendered a comprehensive written decision that stated that Jonathan's needs were "great" and that the wife's "love and commitment to him were impressive" but concluded that she had nonetheless failed to established that she was entitled to an extension or increase in alimony:

Clearly, there has been a significant change that was not anticipated at the time of the divorce. . . . However, reviewing the evidence and testimony submitted by both parties, this Court concludes that the defendant has failed to demonstrate [that] "unusual circumstances" have impaired her ability to support herself, and does not provide sufficient evidence to support her request. Specifically, she fails to show the impact of child care responsibilities on her earning capacity.

The court therefore denied the wife's request for an increase and extension of alimony. The wife then appealed again (App. Div. 2011), and this time, the appellate division affirmed the decision of the trial court.

Because alimony orders are always subject to modification based upon changed circumstances, it is important, when entering in to an agreement, to know what can happen down the line. This is just one possibility, among many, that both spouses need to consider.

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Eliana T. Baer is a frequent contributor to the New Jersey Family Legal Blog and a member of the Family Law Practice Group of Fox Rothschild LLP. Eliana practices in Fox Rothschild's Princeton, New Jersey office and focuses her state-wide practice on representing clients on issues relating to divorce, equitable distribution, support, custody, adoption, domestic violence, premarital agreements and Appellate Practice. You can reach Eliana at (609) 895-3344, or etbaer@foxrothschild.com.

Motions to Reduce Support: When Applications are Denied without a Plenary Hearing, What's Next?

In this economy, you would be surprised to see how many judges are jaded by applications brought by supporting spouses to reduce their support obligations based upon a reduction in income. After all, some judges entertain these applications on their daily docket and oftentimes see supporting spouses who are simply attempting to capitalize on the down economy and lack any actual merit to their cases. This blog post will explore one of the reactions by judges to this type of application; namely, denying the request of the supporting spouse outright without even holding a hearing, taking testimony, and making credibility findings.

Support obligations are always modifiable by the family court upon application of the supporting spouse.  Typically, this type of application requires the supporting spouse to make a threshold prima facie showing that “changed circumstances have substantially impaired the ability to support himself or herself.” Lepis v. Lepis, 83 N.J. 139, 157 (1980). When such a showing is made, the Court must next determine if a plenary hearing is warranted. This is sometimes referred to as the two-step Lepis analysis.

New Jersey Court have recognized various events that satisfactorily demonstrate a prima facie showing of “changed circumstances,” including, but not limited to:

(1) an increase in the cost of living, Martindell v. Martindell, 21 N.J. 341, 353 (1956);

(2) increase or decrease in the supporting spouse's income, Martindell, supra, 21 N.J. at 355; Traudt v. Traudt, 116 N.J. Eq. 75, (E & A 1934); Acheson v. Acheson, 24 N.J. Misc., 133 (Ch. Div. 1946);

(3) illness, disability or infirmity arising after the original judgment, e.g., Kirshbaum v. Kirshbaum, 129 N.J. Eq. 429 (E & A 1941); Limpert v. Limpert, 119 N.J.Super. 438 (App. Div. 1972); see Ostrow v. Ostrow, 59 N.J.Super. 299, 305-306 (App. Div. 1960); and

(4) subsequent employment by the dependent spouse, Ramhorst v. Ramhorst, 138 N.J. Eq. 523 (E & A 1946); Kavanagh v. Kavanagh, 134 N.J. Eq. 358 (E & A 1944), see also Lavene v. Lavene, 162 N.J.Super. 187, 203 (Ch. Div.1 978).

[Lepis, supra, 83 N.J. at 151]

While many cases cite this prima facie standard to either deny or grant an initial motion and schedule a hearing, it has become almost an elusive concept to both lawyers and judges, alike. In fact, hardly any New Jersey cases actually define the term. Prima facie is defined in Black’s Law Dictionary as follows: “At first sight; on the first appearance; on the face of it; so far as can be judged from the first disclosure; presumably; a fact presumed to be true unless disproved by some evidence to the contrary.” In Re: Napp Technologies, Inc. Litigation Application Of Holt & Ross, Inc. To Quash Subpoena 338 N.J. Super. 176 (Law Div. 2000). The concept has never been clearly defined in a case under Lepis, however. This may be the reason that the case law is so widely divergent as to what type of factual scenario would constitute a prima facie change in circumstances.

Once the trial judge determines that prima facie threshold has been met (step one), appropriate discovery of the other party’s financial condition is justified and, eventually, a plenary hearing may be necessary if material facts are clearly shown to be in dispute (step two). The scheduling of a plenary hearing requires that the supporting spouse clearly demonstrate the existence of a genuine issue as to material fact.

During the plenary hearing, the Courts are to weigh several factors dependent on the nature of each case. These factors include whether the change in circumstance is temporary or permanent; whether the change was voluntary; whether it was motivated by bad faith or a desire to avoid payment; and whether the change in circumstance renders the payor former spouse unable to pay. Courts cannot fairly undertake this balancing of equities when they lack sufficient evidence in the record to do so.

Despite that clear mandate, it is amazing how many judges will deny an application outright, preventing a case from moving past step one, and make findings as to voluntariness, permanency, bad faith and ability to pay without sufficient evidence to do so – i.e. without the necessary discovery and testimony of the parties.

Below are some cases where the trial judges did just that, but the Appellate Division put the brakes on and held those trial judges to the two-step Lepis procedure.

First, recently, in Skoblar v. Skoblar, 2012 WL 996653 (App. Div. 2012), the trial judge, without a plenary hearing, found that the defendant-obligor had not adequately shown changed circumstances under Lepis necessary to obtain relief. In denying the defendant’s application, the judge stated: “There is not enough evidence for the Plaintiff to determine that there is a prima facie case with what The Plaintiff have before the Plaintiff.” Ibid. This despite the fact that the defendant’s motion had appended to it a certification, CIS, tax returns and an analysis of his business income prepared by a certified public accountant. Ibid.

The Appellate Division disagreed with the trial court and remanded the matter for a plenary hearing. In doing so, the Court stated:

Although the matter is not free from doubt, we are persuaded that defendant has advanced a prima facie showing of changed circumstances here to trigger a plenary hearing. His certification asserts no reduction in hours worked at his law practice or diversion of his time to other endeavors and does not appear in bad faith…

We cannot conclusively determine from the record whether defendant is voluntarily underemployed by virtue of his diminution in income from his law practice. We also note that if the figures recited in defendant’s CIS and certification are accepted as true, they suggest “changed circumstances have substantially impaired [his] ability to support himself.”

The Court concluded “[g]iven the nature of this record, any dispute as to defendant’s changed circumstances are best determined in a plenary hearing. In such a proceeding, the judge will have a chance to assess the credibility of defendant’s assertions, as tested through the rigors of cross examination.” On those findings, the Appellate Division reversed and remanded the case for a full hearing in which the facts and equities could be developed an evaluated. The Court further ordered that prior to the plenary hearing, the parties were to exchange updated CIS forms, including tax returns and any necessary discovery counsel wished to pursue.

Similarly, the Appellate Division in Smoley v. Smoley, 2008 WL 2310065, reversed and remanded a case for a plenary hearing on a finding that the supporting spouse had presented a prima facie case that the parties’ financial situations had changed since the time of the divorce. The plaintiff-obligor in Smoley was ordered at the time of the parties’ 2004 divorce to pay $6,583.35 per month in spousal support on the basis of his then-earnings of $300,000 per year and his former wife’s imputed earnings of $30,000 per year. In 2007, the plaintiff-obligor filed a motion to terminate alimony based upon his changed circumstances. In support of his motion, he provided the Court with a certification and tax information which reflected a reduction in his earnings from $300,000 at the time of the divorce, to $130,000, which he attributed to a decline in his company’s earnings, as well as to his declining health. His former wife opposed the motion, arguing that his claim of a reduction in income was manufactured and that the reported business earnings are specious or exaggerated. She also maintained that despite the plaintiff-obligor’s claim of financial hardship, he still maintained a high lifestyle. She also disputed the plaintiff-obligor’s assertion that his deteriorating health rendered him unable to work in the same capacity as at the time of the divorce.

In reversing and remanding the case for a plenary hearing, the Appellate Division found as follows:
The motion judge held that Paul had not presented a prima facie case of changed circumstances under Lepis and that a plenary hearing was not warranted. We disagree. Paul has demonstrated a substantial decrease in income from the time of the property settlement agreement as well as letters from physicians, albeit uncertified, which indicate Paul should reduce his work hours in APS. On the other hand, Frances disputes all of these factual assertions. Moreover, we are unable to ascertain whether Frances’ financial condition has changed since she did not supply a case information statement.

While the above examples are of unreported and non-precedential decisions, it is interesting to see the Appellate Division’s response to cases where trial judges simply deny motions outright, without a second glance and an opportunity to develop evidence during a plenary hearing. Of course, success on these types of applications will depend on the merits of each case. However, simply because a trial judge sees these applications as a matter of course, does not mean that an analysis of the individual facts of each supporting spouse should not be fully examined.   Considering the Appellate Division's reactions to these types of cases, appealing these types of decisions by the trial court might be the best way to obtain the relief you are seeking.

Sloppy Drafting of Marital Settlement Agreements Can Cause Great Harm - Usually to only one of the parties

In a perfect world, marital settlement agreements (MSAs a/k/a Property Settlement Agreements) are crystal clear and cover every possible contingency under the sun (I say this as when first drafting this post, I was being contacted frantically by a client regarding custody provisions in the event of school closure because of hurricane.)  That perfect world rarely exists for many reasons, including the main reason that most cases would never settle and/or the cost would be outlandish if every possible contingency is contemplated and negotiated.  That said, we do our best to address to the most germane and likely issues.

If the document cannot cover every possible thing under the sun, at least the final document should be clear and include the parties' actual meeting of the minds on the included issues.  Sadly, this does not always happen either.  Sometimes, the parties meeting of the minds is really not a meeting of the minds - that is, they each believe that the settlement is something else but the language of the agreement is vague or imprecise enough where they both think that they are right.  Some people actually do this on purpose to keep an argument on a "hot button" issue alive for the future.  Other times, it is simply inartful, to put it kindly, or down right bad drafting that causes future problems.

If a party can convince a court that the terms of the agreement represent a mutual mistake, perhaps there is some relief and the agreement can be re-formed.  That said, more often then not, one of the parties gets really hurt by virtue of the poor drafting. 

This appears to be what happened in the case of Rozier v. Byrd, an unreported (non-precedential) opinion released by the Appellate Division on October 26, 2012.  In this case, either someone was trying to be cute and the law of unintended consequences jumped up to bite him, or he was the apparent victim of a poorly drafted agreement.

In this case, not unusually, the parties agreed to sell the marital home and equally divide the net proceeds after certain marital debt was satisfied.  The house was listed for $899,000 but the agreement provided that the listing price could be reduced at the advice of the broker.  The husband was going to remain in the house pending the sale.  The agreement also provided that he was allowed to refinance the house into his own name, taking out $85,000 to pay off the aforementioned marital debt and give the wife a $25,000 advance against her share of the equitable distribution of the house. The agreement further provided that: 

In the event the marital home is not sold within one year of the date of [plaintiff] vacating the marital home, [defendant] shall provide [plaintiff] with a second $25,000.00 advance payment of her share of the net proceeds from the sale of the marital home, which shall be deducted from her equitable share of the net proceeds from the sale.

This is where the problems begin!  After a year, the house was not sold and the second $25,000 "advance" was not paid.  on top of that, the house was now off of the market.  When the husband didn't pay, the wife filed an enforcement motion.  The husband's defense seemed to be in good faith, as follows:

Defendant explained he had obtained an appraisal of the home indicating that, as of January 18, 2010, the appraised value of the home was $755,000. After subtracting out the current mortgage balance of $575,000, outstanding student loans of $136,523, estimated real estate commission and closing fees of $37,750, and the first $25,000 advance payment to plaintiff, defendant asserted that there was no longer any equity in the home. Since there was no current equity in the home, defendant argued he had no obligation to pay plaintiff any further advance on her share of the net proceeds from the future sale of the home.

Plaintiff opposed the motion, asserting that the MSA was clear and required defendant to pay her $25,000
on January 6, 2011.  She lost in the trial court because the trial judge found that the second payment was not guaranteed.  The Appellate Division reversed finding:

Thus, contrary to the trial judge's interpretation, there was only one pre-condition
to plaintiff receiving the second $25,000 advance payment - - defendant's failure to sell the home within the one-year period. Once he failed to do so, he was required to make the $25,000 payment to plaintiff.

Rather, the Appellate Division looked right to the language of the agreement which noted that equitable distribution of the asset would only be determined when the net proceeds were determined which could only happen when a sale occurred, whenever that was.  In fact, the court found that the "current equity" was not even mentioned in the MSA and thus, irrelevant to the inquiry. 

So, in addition to the ruling of the Appellate Division, two possible take aways here are that the husband thought he was getting a good deal being able to live in the home until the market rebounded or the parties "real agreement" was not fleshed out with precision and detail the MSA.  If the parties' real intent was as espoused by the husband, one reasonable conclusion given that the house was listed for $899,000 at the time of the divorce but appraised for far less, only the wife got a guaranteed $50,000 equitable distribution from this asset and the husband perhaps got nothing. 

Is this fair?  Who knows?  That said, there probably wouldn't have been this post judgment litigation and appeal if the parties' true intent, assuming that it was other than as set forth in the MSA, was spelled out.

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Eric Solotoff is the editor of the New Jersey Family Legal Blog and the Co-Chair of the Family Law Practice Group of Fox Rothschild LLP. Certified by the Supreme Court of New Jersey as a Matrimonial Lawyer and a Fellow of the American Academy of Matrimonial Attorneys, Eric practices in Fox Rothschild's Roseland, New Jersey office though he practices throughout New Jersey. You can reach Eric at (973)994-7501, or esolotoff@foxrothschild.com

Finally A Case on "Egregious Fault" as it Relates to an Award of Alimony

Though fault was allegedly was something that the court could consider when it related to the determination of alimony, since the Supreme Court decided the Mani case in 2005 fault was largely eliminated from the equation.  The reason is that that Court said that marital fault was largely irrelevant since alimony was neither a punishment to the payor nor a reward to the recipient.  That said the Court acknowledged two "narrow" exceptions to this general principle: "cases in which the fault has affected
the parties' economic life and cases in which the fault so violates societal norms that continuing the economic bonds between the parties would confound notions of simple justice."  The court further noted:

With respect to the first exception, the Court held "to the extent that marital misconduct affects the economic status quo of the parties, it may be taken into consideration in the
calculation of alimony." Id. at 91 (emphasis added). However, when egregious "conduct occurs, it may be considered by the court, not in calculating an alimony award, but in the initial determination of whether alimony should be allowed at all."

The notion of "egregious fault" was born but much like the Loch Ness monster, many of us had heard of it, but few had seen it. That is, until the Appellate Division's published (precedential) opinion released on October 19, 2012 in the case of Clark v. Clark.  In this case, the husband proved that the wife secreted $345,690 from their closely held business during their marriage. He argued that this should have prevented any alimony altogether.  The trial judge disagreed but did order the wife to repay half the amount taken, in satisfaction of plaintiff's equitable distribution interest.  He appealed and the Appellate Division reversed the alimony provision of the final judgment of divorce, concluding the facts supported a
finding defendant engaged in conduct rising to the level of egregious fault.

In reaching its decision, the Appellate Division stated:

... Nevertheless, defendant's conduct transcends mere "economic impact," as she not only betrayed the sanctity of the marital vows of trust, but also kicked their economic security in the teeth by secretly draining cash from the pharmacy. Defendant conceived and carried out a long-term scheme to embezzle the cash receipts from Grayrock,
which deprived plaintiff of the immediate fruits of his daily labors and impinged on the viability of the joint business asset and the family's future security. We determine her actions smack of criminality and demonstrate a willful and serious violation of societal norms.

The court noted that it was, "...  free to consider whether extraordinary, flagrant, economic misconduct during the marriage may rise to the level of egregious fault resulting in divorce and warranting denial of an otherwise valid claim for alimony." The court noted that excessive spending, waste of marital assets, or other acts of bad judgment was not "egregious fault." 

However, when marital misconduct, even though economically based, evinces significant, willful wrongdoing, designed to fraudulently and purposefully deprive
one's spouse of the economic benefits of the marital partnership, the acts transcend fault affecting the economic status quo, and in fact "violate[] societal norms," id. at 73,
and equate to "egregious fault." In analyzing such instances, trial courts must consider the totality of the facts and circumstances presented and determine whether the conduct
warrants severing all economic bonds between the parties by precluding an alimony award.

In this case, the Appellate Division found fatal the trial court's failure to consider  whether defendant's economic improprieties were so outrageous as to warrant additional relief as directed by Mani

Thus, despite many people espousing that the issue of marital fault is dead, this case serves notice that it is not.  While this case dealt with economic misconduct, clearly this seems to open the door to all misconduct which is willful, fraudulent, extraordinary and violative of societal norm.  Seemingly, the garden variety affair would not be enough?  But what about multiple affairs with people known by their spouse?  What about elaborate ruses to continue an affair where once caught?  It shall be interesting to see whether this law develops further.

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Eric Solotoff is the editor of the New Jersey Family Legal Blog and the Co-Chair of the Family Law Practice Group of Fox Rothschild LLP. Certified by the Supreme Court of New Jersey as a Matrimonial Lawyer and a Fellow of the American Academy of Matrimonial Attorneys, Eric practices in Fox Rothschild's Roseland, New Jersey office though he practices throughout New Jersey. You can reach Eric at (973)994-7501, or esolotoff@foxrothschild.com.

WHAT DOES EQUITABLE DISTRIBUTION MEAN FOR A MEDICAL PRACTICE?

You work hard in high school, graduate top of your class in college, go on to graduate medical school, spend the longs hours and dedication needed to finish your residency, and finally after thousands of hours of studying, hundreds of tests and years of hard work - you are a doctor.  You start your own practice. You made it professionally. Personally, things are a bit different. You are facing a divorce. What does that mean for the medical practice you’ve worked so hard to establish?

Doctors may face unique issues during a divorce. Long term marriages may have seen years of what is considered relatively ‘average’ income (medical school and residency), followed by a dramatic or steady increase in salary (or a combination of both). It is no secret that self-employed doctors are usually not a typical W-2 employee. So what does this mean in the context of a divorce? What happens to the medical practice when the couple divorces?

Equitable distribution in New Jersey does not automatically mean half or 50% of a marital asset. Equitable distribution is not a simple mechanical division of assets accumulated and/or created during a marriage. The word 'equitable' itself implies the weighing of many considerations and circumstances that are presented in and unique to each case.  A judge would not be fulfilling his/her judicial obligation if he/she routinely or mechanically divided assets from a marriage equally.

In a long term marriage, personal assets are usually divided equally.  Businesses, including medical practices are a different story. Why? One argument may be that the spouse working in the business created the value of the business through his/her talent and hard work. Because of this unequal division of labor, perhaps there should be an unequal division of value. Other considerations may need to be made regarding the tax consequences of dividing the value of a business. Often times accounting experts are helpful in not only determining the value of a business (based upon different forensic valuation methods) but also cash flow and the consideration of perks that are paid by the business.   Every circumstance must be considered independently and in light of all the factors involved.

The matter of Steneken v. Steneken, 367 N.J. Super. 427 (App. Div. 2004), the Appellate Court addressed a situation of “double-dipping” regarding the husband’s support obligation and the equitable distribution of a closely held business. The Court in that matter considered whether it was impermissible “double counting” to use the actual income of a closely held corporation for alimony purposes, but a lower, “normalized” income amount when valuing the corporation for equitable distribution purposes. It held that in determining the income for a closely held corporation for purposes of awarding alimony, there is no requirement that a court use the same method of calculating income that is used to determine the value of the corporation for equitable distribution purposes. The interplay between an alimony award and equitable distribution is subject to an overarching concept of fairness.

Take for example the business of a single medical practitioner. If a court were to award the doctor’s spouse half the value of the medical practice plus an award of alimony based upon the same value used for the business - that could be considered double dipping. The court would have to take into account many considerations, including but not limited to the length of marriage, income from the business, income of the parties, age of the parties, ability of each party to work and contribute to their own support, contributions from each spouse to the business, and a multitude of others.  Each case must be assessed on its merits and the specific facts it presents.  

Dividing a closely held business or a medical practice can present its challenges. It is important to get the right professionals involved early on so that an appropriate legal strategy can be developed and implemented.

Another day, Another Judge lost

 There is no secret that New Jersey is suffering a significant crisis with respect to judicial vacancies. This year alone has seen a significant number of retirements without replacements being named.  The effect on the family courts, and in particular, the divorce docket, has been catastrophic.   I was at a meeting of family lawyers just recently at which the assignment judge of a county in the southern part of the state was kind enough to come and discuss directly with the bar the situation.  And while I deeply appreciated the fact that he did, and the efforts that the judges are making to accommodate the needs of the public, the fact of the matter is that the situation is untenable throughout the state.  In some counties, the situation is so bad that there are no, I mean no, trials for contested divorce cases.  In others, a case will not reach a judge for final disposition for three years,  In several counties, judges have upwards of 500 cases to handle.  Only a superhuman can give a matter the attention it deserves when having that type of case load.  

The purpose of this blog is not to pass blame, nor to comment of the swirl of political posturing that goes on when this subject comes up. Rather, despite the fact that the vast majority of judges that I know are working late nights and weekends, they simply can’t keep up effectively.  And that means that attorneys and litigants have to find an alternate method to resolve their cases in order to save money and get on with their lives and those of their children. Any good family lawyer will have an honest conversation about the cost ridden road to the Courthouse.  Certainly, there are times that judicial intervention is necessary and as lawyers, we are prepared to take a case to the judge. However, alternate dispute resolution is an important piece of the puzzle.

There are several effective methods of alternative dispute resolution that must be considered by litigants.  Some of these are woven into the court system.  Some are complimentary to the system. Before filing for divorce, talk with your lawyer to determine whether mediation, or arbitration is a viable option for your situation.  

Mediation can occur any time during the process, and can happen with or without attorneys. Many times litigants will agree to go to a mediator to resolve their differences and then the mediator will prepare a memorandum of the agreement that the parties have reviewed by their respective counsel.  Sometimes, someone may be uncomfortable going through mediation without legal counsel.  In that case, going with a lawyer can be a cost and time effective method to settle the case. When you go with a lawyer, you can make sure that your rights are protected, and you do not agree to anything without having the opportunity to discuss the ramifications.

Mediation by its very nature requires a level of trust between the litigants that each will come to the table with the intention of negotiating and dealing in good faith. Sometimes that simply does not exist. In those cases, arbitration may be an excellent alternative to the court system. In some counties, arbitration is widely used. In others, not so much.

Arbitration is a good option for litigants who are unable to sit down in mediation and need a decision for contested disputes. There are many excellent arbitrators who specialize in family law, including many retired judges who are more than capable of rendering a sound decision. Arbitration is much like a trial in that there can be a hearing and each party can present witnesses if appropriate. The parties enter into an agreement in which they set the ground rules, and arbitration can include the right to appeal a decision. In the vast majority of cases, a decision is made by the arbitrator very soon after the hearing, letting the litigants go on with their lives.

Our reality is that there may need to be more use of some of these mechanisms in order to assist break up the log jam that exists in the Family Court.
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Jennifer Weisberg Millner is a contributor to the New Jersey Family Legal Blog and a member of Fox Rothschild's Family Law Practice Group. Jennifer practices throughout New Jersey in all areas of family law and family law litigation and is resident in the firm’s Princeton office. You can reach Jennifer at (609) 895-6712, or jmillner@foxrothschild.com.

SEEKING A SUPPORT MODIFICATION? FILE THAT CASE INFORMATION STATEMENT OR ELSE.

As we have blogged before, perhaps the most critical document in the New Jersey family law landscape is the Case Information Statement.  A document designed to provide the court, parties and legal counsel with a complete economic picture - income, expenses, assets and liabilities - the CIS, which is signed by the party under oath, can be used to address several issues including, but not limited to, alimony, child support and equitable distribution. 

Rule 5:5-2(a) requires the filing of a CIS in "all contested family actions, except summary actions" where there exists any issue as to custody, support, alimony or equitable distribution.  The rule also provides that a CIS may otherwise be required by Court Order or on motion of the court or other party. 

For the more specific purpose of this blog entry, Rule 5:5-4(a) provides that, when filing a motion in the family part for "the entry or modification of an order or judgment for alimony or child support based on changed circumstances", the motion must be accompanied by a copy of the prior filed CIS/statement(s) upon which support was originally determined and now sought to be modified, and a newly updated CIS.  This subsection of 5:5-4 concludes by providing that if the party seeking the modification establishes a "substantial change in circumstances", the court will then order the other party to file a copy of a current CIS.

Bringing us to the Appellate Division's newly unreported decision in Livingstone v. Daniel, wherein the Court found that the trial judge did not properly state a basis for his decision to modify child support after he terminated alimony following a plenary hearing.  As part of the alimony termination decision, the trial court directed the parties to submit their last 3 pay stubs, medical insurance information, and work related child care expenses for a child support calculation to be made.  After such information was submitted, the trial court issued a new order, without further briefing or oral argument, increasing child support based on the parties' gross weekly incomes, mom's net annual work-related child care expense, and the children's health insurance premiums.  Importantly, the Appellate Division found that the trial court's reliance on pay stubs in lieu of Case Information Statements was improper, since there was the full financial picture for both parties was lacking.  As a result, the trial court was directed to conduct further proceedings upon review of the parties' CISs.

Interestingly, the court also remanded as to whether dad was required to contribute to the children's private school expense, even though the parties' settlement agreement only referenced such contributions in relation to college.  The alimony termination was deemed a change in circumstances meriting new review on this issue, to which the trial court failed to perform the proper analysis/consideration of several factors in deciding that the settlement agreement controlled.  In addition to determining whether a child support modification was warranted based on CISs to be filed, the trial court, thus, was also required to consider private school contributions.

The scenario in Livingstone only serves to reiterate just how important filing that CIS for several reasons, as it is the complete financial picture that is critical to rendering a proper determination on issues of support, education contributions, and the like.

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Robert Epstein is a contributor to the New Jersey Family Legal Blog and a member of Fox Rothschild's Family Law Practice Group. Robert practices throughout New Jersey in all areas of family law and family law litigation. You can reach Robert at (973)994-7526, or repstein@foxrothschild.com.

A Loan by any other name is a ....Gift.... to be shared

>Often times, when I meet with a new client, they will tell me that a parent, a sibling, great aunt, or good friend loaned the client and the spouse money that must be considered a debt to be repaid in equitable distribution. Many times, this was for a down payment for a house, or to get the couple through difficult financial period. The other party, just as often, takes the position that the “ loan” was really a gift. And so the games begin.

Generally, in the law, a gift has several elements. First the he donor must perform some act constituting the actual or symbolic delivery of the gift. Second, the donor must possess the intent to give. Third, the donee must accept the gift. There us also an additional element, which is the relinquishment by the donor "of ownership of the gift. A loan, on the other hand, is generally defined as The giving or granting of something, particularly a sum of money, to another, with the expectation that it will be repaid (typically with interest) or returned.

When comparing these in the context of a divorce, several questions come to mind. First, if the money was given when the parties purchased a home, was there a “gift letter.” This is very often required by the banks in order to make sure that the money is not a loan. If there is such a gift letter, this is often the end of the inquiry. On the other hand, if there are periodic payments to the person who gave the parties the money, then it may in fact be considered a loan for purposes of distribution. 

Bank records, documents, including emails and letters which memorialize the character of the payment can all be important when determining the nature of such a payment. Cancelled checks can also be critical, as the writer of the check may have written something in the “memo”section of the check. For instance, the words, “Anniversary gift to John and Jane” would seem to dispose of the issue.

 

Indirect payments can also be important. For example, sometimes a sibling will pay a debt by a credit card, or incur a debt for the couple. So if the couple has regular payments to a third party credit card, that can certainly indicate a loan as opposed to a gift.

 

In the absence of some type of proof that a payment was to be loan, it can be very difficult to establish that a payment was not a gift. Even if a payment is to be considered a gift, that does not always mean that it will be distributed equally, For instance, if the Wife’s dad gives the parties $100,000 towards a down payment of a home six months before the marital break up, there is certainly a healthy argument that the Wife should get more of the equity. These are hot button issues in divorce cases and they are very fact sensitive. It is important to discuss the circumstances with a lawyer so that a litigant understands the likely disposition.
 

Did a Property Transfer Occur? Husband Could not Rely on the Property Settlement Agreement to Compel the Sale of the Marital Home Because the Deed Controlled.

An interesting issue was recently considered by the Court in the case of Muller v. Muller. Specifically, the Appellate Division examined whether a husband could compel the sale of the marital home when he had conveyed his interest by way of deed about ten years earlier, but the parties’ Property Settlement Agreement (“PSA”) had provided for the husband’s continued ownership.

The parties in Muller were married for 17 years. When they divorced in 1990, they entered into a PSA, which, in part, provided as follows:

EQUITABLE DISTRIBUTION
A. Husband and Wife agree to divide equally the personalty . . . upon sale of the premises or child's emancipation, whichever shall first occur.
B. Upon execution of contract of sale of the above premises, Husband agrees to put his interest in the marital home in trust for Child.
. . . .

REAL ESTATE
A. Husband agrees to pay the mortgage payments [on the marital home] . . . until the time that child graduates from college, or reaches the age of 22, whichever shall first occur[.]

The husband paid the mortgage from the time of the divorce until around 1999 when he defaulted on the payments. The mortgagee instituted foreclosure proceedings in or around July of 2000. In order to avoid foreclosure, the wife borrowed about $60,000 and refinanced the property. The husband executed a deed and conveyed the wife his ownership interest in the property for consideration of $50,000. As a result, the wife exonerated him of the debt the he had incurred by defaulting on the mortgage payments. At the point, the child was 21 years old and had graduated from college.

About 10 years later, in September of 2010, the husband filed a motion to, among other things, compel the sale of the martial home and to transfer to him one-half of the sale proceeds. He asserted that the transfer of title was not intended to relinquish his interest in the property, but rather, to avoid his creditors. He also argued that he had not read the PSA completely and the provision regarding the trust for the parties daughter was a mistake. In addition, he argued that the wife had waived the interest of the parties’ daughter as provided in the PSA.

In her opposition to the husband’s motion, the wife argued that the husband defaulted on the loan, she refinanced the mortgage to prevent foreclosure, and the husband transferred to property to be relieved of his debt. She also denied waiving the interest of the parties daughter.

After conducting an interview of the parties’ daughter to determine whether the daughter made “an affirmative, voluntary waiver of her interest,” the trial judge rendered his decision and found that the daughter had not waived her interest in the property. He further concluded that the husband had relinquished his interest in the property. The husband’s appeal followed.

On October 4, 2011, the Appellate Division rendered its decision and affirmed the decision of the trial court. In doing so, the Appellate Division was bound by the fact that "findings by the trial court are binding on appeal when supported by adequate, substantial, credible evidence." The Court found that the trial court’s decision was in fact supported by substantial, credible evidence and specifically, that the Court had justly found that

[the husband] relinquished all of his right, title, and interest in and to the [property] by virtue of his execution and delivery of a Bargain and Sale, with Covenants Against Grantors' Acts on May 2, 2000. The deed stated a consideration of [$50,000]; [the husband] was exonerated from liability on the note and mortgage that was in foreclosure due to his failure to make the mortgage payments; and [the husband] was not liable on the new note for which [the wife] bore exclusive liability.

The Court thus agreed with the trial court’s finding that any potential interest the husband had in the property was conveyed to the wife when he executed the deed in 2000. At that point, he lost his ability to compel the sale of the home.

It seems that in this case, the Court was really considering which document controlled when it came to the husband’s interest in the martial home – the PSA or the deed. True, there was no order or other agreement specifically modifying the PSA. However, the Court found that the deed was sufficient evidence that the parties had intended to modify the PSA and that the husband no longer had an interest in the marital home as a result. And of course, another important lesson here is that “I didn’t read it” is not a defense. So read all documents carefully, and be vigilant about spotting any “mistakes.” You will not be able to go back and change those provisions later absent extraordinary circumstances.

GIFTS UNDER THE UNIFORM TRANSFERS TO MINORS ACT - AN ADDITION TO CHILD SUPPORT

In Ferraro v. Ferraro, a new unpublished (not precedential) decision from the Appellate Division, the Court reaffirmed the notion that gifts made to children under the Uniform Transfers to Minors Act (UTMA) are "in addition to, not in substitution for, and does not affect any obligation of a person to support the minor." 

Before getting into the relevant facts in Ferraro, a brief review of UTMA's underlying legal principles is instructive.  Generally, UTMA allows for the transfer "by irrevocable gift" to a custodian for a minor's benefit.  The Appellate Division noted the statutory provision applicable to securities, which requires that such gifted securities be registered by the giftor in his or her own name, with the subsequent notation, "as custodian for . . . under the New Jersey Uniform Transfers to Minors Act."  The law establishes that the custodian's responsibilities over such gifts include collecting, holding, managing, investing and reinvesting the custodial property for the minor's benefit.  As highlighted at the outset of this entry, since the gift is vested in the children, it cannot be used by a parent custodian - who has a fiduciary duty over the gift - to fulfill his or her child support obligation.  It is for that reason why the gift must, unless stated otherwise, be transferred to the minor upon the minor turning 21 years old or the minor's death.

That brings us to the facts in Ferraro, where the parties settlement agreement established the creation of two accounts with Merrill Lynch, designated in the agreement "to meet the post[-]secondary school educational needs of the children - both accounts are in the amount of $125,000."  Dad named himself as custodian of the accounts.  During post-judgment motion practice, Dad sought to modify his support obligation and, in response, Mom sought for Dad to turn over the accounts to her out of concern that he would liquidate same for his own use.  Interestingly, Dad responded at the time that he would use the accounts for the children's college expenses "as agreed" and that he would not turn over to Mom any unused portion.  Mom's application was denied at that time.

Almost 2 years later following more post-Judgment motion practice, the parties entered into a Consent Order, one term of which required Dad to pay Mom $500,000 to absolve him from any further child support or child-related expenses (including, but not limited to, health insurance, unreimbursed medical bills and college costs).  One year later in February 2010, Mom filed a motion seeking Dad to pay the money previously contained in the college accounts, since, as Mom feared, Dad had removed the funds for his own use.  Dad argued that the Consent Order disposed of any issues as to the accounts, even though they were not expressly mentioned in the Consent Order. 

Following oral argument, the trial court found that the account monies were irrevocable payments to the children and, since there was no specific agreement regarding whether the accounts were encompassed by the Consent Order, Dad's actions were deemed improper.  Notably, the trial court stated, "These are the rights of the children.  The mother could not even waive it if she chose to, legally.  So the money has to be reinstalled into the children's accounts." 

The Appellate Division agreed that the accounts at issue were covered by UTMA and, thus, irrevocable gifts for the children that were separate, apart, and in addition to Dad's child support obligation.  As a result, neither parent had the right to divest the children of such funds, no matter what interpretation of the settlement agreement was argued before the court.  Interestingly, the matter was remanded because the trial court failed to determine whether the Consent Order and the underlying $500,000 payment made by Dad to Mom included a resolution of any issues involving money contained in the accounts.

WHAT'S IN A NAME ANYWAY?

How does one change their name, or that of a child, in the State of New Jersey?  Well, as set forth in the recently unpublished (not precedential) Appellate Division decision, Henao v. Tibbrine, there's a law for that, which requires an applicant seeking a name change to file a verified Complaint in the Superior Court, with a sworn affidavit with certain required details.  Interestingly, notice of the application must be published in a newspaper of "general circulation."

When the hearing occurs, if the verified Complaint fulfills the statutorily specified requirements and there is no reasonable objection to the assumption of another name, than the name change will be permitted.  The issue in Henao was whether the biological, non-custodial mother of two children could orally oppose the father's name-change application at the hearing on the scheduled date.  Notably, the law specific as to name changes does not require written opposition, which was the basis upon which the trial court relied in denying the mother's oral opposition (rationalizing that the mother should have known to file an opposition in writing because she had previously been involved with motion practice before the court).  However, court rules specific to the family part do require a written response 15 days prior to a scheduled hearing date. 

The Appellate Division disagreed with the trial court, finding that there existed no evidence that the mother was informed of the need to oppose the application in writing.  Interestingly, the Appellate Division in dicta expressed concern with allowing a name change application to proceed via a default judgment.  Noting that a strong presumption exists that the name change is in the best interests of the children since the father was the custodial parent, the Appellate Division also noted that the presumption is rebuttable, especially where the child has used the non-custodial surname for a period of time, is comfortable with that name, is known by that name, and maintains contact with the non-custodial parent. 

As a result, the matter was remanded to provide the mother with an opportunity to contest the name-change application, where it is incumbent upon her to establish that it is in the best interests of the children to keep her surname, or, interestingly, have a name that combines that of both parents (such as a hyphenated name). 

While not the typical "family part" matter, this case was nonetheless interesting for its specific issue and the Appellate Division's rationale and concern over the name-change proceedings.

The Court was also  concerned that an action as significant as a name change would,be concluded by a default judgment. While under the law, there is a strong presumption that a name change requested by the custody parent is in the children's best interests, the presumption can be rebutted.  the Court noted that a child who has used the non-custodial surname for a period of time, is known to all by that surname, expresses comfort with the continuation of that surname, and maintains frequent contact with the non-custodial parent might be ill-served by the presumption that the assumption of the custodial surname would be in his or her best interests.

As such, the mother in this case was given the opportunity to contest the change of name and to demonstrate that it is in her children's best interest to retain her name or assume some combination of her name and that of the father. There is a statute, N.J.S.A. 8:2-1.3(a)(2) that provides that where both parents have custody of the child, are both available, and disagree on the selection of a surname, "the child shall be given a hyphenated surname based on alphabetical order").

 

Appellate Division Finds that Putting GPS in Spouse's Car was Not an Invasion of Privacy

As technology progresses, the use of it rears its head during divorce cases.  One such form of technology is the use of a GPS in a spouses vehicle.  In a reported (precedential) opinion decided on July 7, 2011, in the case of Villanova vs. Innovative Investigations, the Appellate Division affirmed a trial court's granting of summary judgment, effectively dismissing a husband's invasion of privacy claim.

In this case, the wife , in the midst of divorce proceedings, hired a private investigator to follow her husband.  The private investigator later suggested that the wife put a GPS device in the family vehicle driven by the husband and she did.  She later used the findings in the divorce case.  During the divorce case, the husband amended his divorce pleading to seek invasion of privacy damages against the wife.  He also tried to add the defendant's in this case, the private investigator as a defendant in the divorce case but the court would not allow that.  The husband ultimately abandoned his tort claim against the wife in their settlement but reserved his rights to pursue his claim against the private investigator.

The invasion of privacy claim in the case against the private investigator was ultimately dismissed because the court found that there is no expectation of privacy driving over public roads. 

The court noted that:

There is no liability under this tort theory "for observing [a plaintiff] or even taking his [or her] photograph while he [or she] is walking on a public highway, since he [or she] is not then in seclusion, and his [or her] appearance is public and open to the public eye." Restatement (Second) of Torts §652B comment c (1977). "A person traveling in an automobile on public thoroughfares has no reasonable expectation of privacy in his [or her] movements from one place to another." United States v. Knotts, 460 U.S. 276, 281, 103 S. Ct. 1081, 1085, 75 L. Ed. 2d 55, 62 (1983).

The result may have been different if the husband could have proven that he was tracked to a private or secluded location that was out of public view and in which he had a legitimate expectation of privacy but the husband could not prove that that had occurred.  In an unusual piece of writing for an appellate opinion, the court provided a hypothetical to illustrate the point. as follows:

The fact that such an eventuality could have occurred is not sufficient to establish a cause of action for the tort of invasion of privacy.

A simple illustration is helpful to our analysis. Suppose Mrs. Villanova placed the device in her husband's vehicle at 2:00 p.m. while the vehicle was parked in the driveway of the family home; then, at 2:30 p.m., plaintiff drove on public streets to a local convenience store, purchased a newspaper, and returned home in a matter of minutes; and then, at 3:00 p.m., either Mrs. Villanova had a change of heart and removed the device without her husband ever knowing about it, or, alternatively, he discovered the device and removed it himself. We do not think a tort of invasion of privacy would have been committed. Although the events here intermittently covered
about forty days, what happened was legally no different.

Now, should people going through a divorce take this as a green light to start placing GPS devices in their spouse's vehicle.  Perhaps not.  There have been some that have argued and some judges have found that that conduct would amount to domestic violence - perhaps harassment or stalking.  Of course, that begs the question of how the alleged victim could demonstrate the requisite fear or be alarmed, if the did not know of the placement of the GPS and similarly, how it would be stalking if the person did not know that the GPS was recording their movements.  

I have no doubt that there will be more to come on this.

Read Leslie Spoltore's Post on the Child Passport Issuance Alert Program

Leslie Spoltore, a partner in our Wilmington, Delaware office and contributor to the firm's Delaware Trial Practice Blog, wrote an instructive post on the Child Passport Issuance Alert Program.

Leslie notes that It is not unusual for parents who are involved in custody disputes to ask an attorney or other third party to hold a child’s passport in escrow to prevent one parent from leaving the country with the child. Another option is to enroll the child in the Child Passport Issuance Alert Program (“CPIAP”). The program, which is run by the U.S. Department of State, is available for U.S. Citizen children under the age of 18 and provides that if a passport application is filed on behalf of an enrolled child, the Department will contact and alert that child’s parent or parents. Leslie further suggests that to learn more about this program or to access an Entry Request Form, please see the Department web page.

Though NY Will Have Same-Sex Marriage, Governor Christie Says NJ Will Not

As we blogged yesterday, NY passed a law allowing same-sex marriage and divorce.  While I am sure that many were hopeful in NJ, Governor Christie swiftly dashed those hopes on Meet the Press today. In an AP story, found in the NY Post, Governor Christie said that he would not sign a bill allowing gay marriage.  This is even though many feel that the New Jersey Civil Union law is not the equivalent to marriage, as we have previously noted. 

I read yesterday that New York does not have residency requirements to marry, so one wonders whether New Jersey residents will cross the river to get married, and then, once married, will New Jersey Courts divorce them.  Since the New Jersey divorce statute applies to the dissolution of civil unions, it seems plausible.  Stay tuned. 

The Court's Duty to Report: Is it for Real or More Like Big Foot

There is a case in New Jersey called Sheridan v. Sheridan,247 N.J. Super. 552 (Ch. Div. 1990), that requires trial judges to report evidence (usually after a trial or hearing) of any illegal activity to the proper authorities.  It most cases, it comes up in the context of unreported or under reported income cases, affectionately known as "Sheridan cases."  That said, I have often joked that this is like Bigfoot or the Loch Ness Monster, that is, we have all heard about the legend, but no one has actually seen it.  I have even tried cases where a party testified about cash and employees who were "off the books", and other cases where the excess perks paid through the business were massive, with no referral to the IRS, etc. 

However, in the last two months, I have seen two unreported Appellate Division decisions which noted that the trial court made a Sheridan referral. 

In Chalow n/k/a Spence v. Chalow, the judge found that defendant had "underreport[ed] . . . income on the tax returns that is not permitted such as, bartering, exchanging services for personal benefits that are not deduct[i]ble, deducting items that are club memberships or other entertainment expenses that are not deduct[i]ble . . . all of which could be considered intentional unreporting [sic] of income." Therefore, pursuant to Sheridan, the judge decided to send a copy of his decision "to both the New Jersey and Federal Taxing Authorities for their consideration."

In Onyiuke v. Onyiuke, during discovery and later a hearing regarding a relocation issue, counsel for defendant and the court learned that plaintiff had falsely taken a credit on his 2007 through
2009 federal income tax returns for daycare expenses of the parties' daughter. .  In fact, Plaintiff's tax returns showed specific false amounts of fees allegedly paid to a day care center though neither child had ever attended that facility.  During the hearing, the trial judge stated that he would report plaintiff's false income tax filings to the Internal Revenue Service in accordance with
Sheridan.

So alas, Sheridan is not myth or legend, it is real. Note, however, many people address these issues in binding arbitration, with the belief that the arbitrator does not have the same duty to report that a judge has. Litigant's who are willing to go to court knowing that they have these potential issues, do so at their peril.

In Change of Custody Cases, Best Interest Standard is King

Oftentimes, issues of custody and parenting time are the most difficult and sensitive decisions that a judge in the family part must make. It involves deliberation of the ever-elusive “best interests of the child” – a question with no right or wrong answers. While the standard is ostensibly subjective, there are certain guideposts that a judge must look to in order make the difficult determinations that come along with issues of custody. Those factors, as set forth in N.J.S.A. 9:2-4(c), include: 

  1. The parents' ability to agree, communicate and cooperate in matters relating to the child;
  2. The parents' willingness to accept custody and any history of unwillingness to allow visitation that is not based upon substantiated abuse;
  3. The interactions and relationship of the child with its parents and siblings;
  4. Any history of domestic violence;
  5. The safety of the child and the safety of either parent from physical abuse by the other parent;
  6. The preference of the child if the child is of sufficient age and capacity to reason so as to make an intelligent decision;
  7. The needs of the child;
  8. The stability of the home environment offered;
  9. The quality and continuity of the child's education;
  10. The fitness of the parents;
  11. The geographical proximity of the parents' homes;
  12. The extent and quality of the time spent with child prior to or subsequent to the separation;
  13. The parents' employment responsibilities;
  14. The age and number of children.

As can be seen in the recent case of Vidal v. Gelak (an unreported/non-precedential decision), when judges do not examine these all-important factors, their decisions face reversal and remand on appeal. 

In Vidal, the parties were divorced in 2005, when their child was two years old. Their settlement agreement provided for joint legal custody of their son, with the father having parenting time from Saturday at 9:00 AM until Tuesday at 8:00 AM, and the mother had parenting time from Tuesday at 8:00 AM until Saturday at 9:00 AM. At the time of the divorce, the father was off from work on Saturdays, Sundays, Mondays and alternating Tuesdays; the mother’s days off were Wednesdays and Thursdays. Thus, the parenting schedule at the time allowed each party to maximize time with the child.

 

When the child was entering third grade, the mother brought a motion seeking, among other things, to modify the father’s parenting time to alternate Saturdays at 9:00 AM until Sunday at 5:00 PM as well as a non-overnight visit during the week. The mother alleged that the father’s visitation was disruptive for their son to go back and forth between residences, which were an hour apart. In addition, the father’s work schedule changed, such that he now worked on Mondays and could no longer spend the day with the child and the child did not like spending time with his stepmother. Also, because the schedule afforded the mother with no weekend time, she stated that the child was missing out on important social activities and resented not being able to spend time with his friends. The father disputed all of the mother’s allegations, claiming that he was more than accommodating in allowing the child to attend special events. He also made the pint that because he now worked from Monday through Friday, 2:30 PM to 11:30 PM, he would not be able to enjoy additional weeknight parenting time in lieu of Saturdays.

 

In court, the mother’s attorney requested that the parties be ordered to attend mediation to resolve their parenting differences, and in the event that failed, requested that the court hold a plenary hearing on the issue. It was also requested that the child be interviewed as to his preferences. The father’s counsel argued that the mother had not submitted evidence sufficient to establish a change of parenting time, and there was no professional speaking on the child’s behalf stating that he did not want to spend the scheduled time with his father. He also opposed an interview of the child by the judge.

 

The motion judge denied the mother’s application for a change in parenting time, reasoning that there had not been a showing of a substantial change of circumstances affecting the welfare of the child such that it is appropriate to review custody. While the motion judge acknowledged that there had been substantial changes to the family since the time of the divorce, the court did not find that the changes were affecting the welfare of the child, who was on honor roll and attending school regularly, without any instances of tardiness. He reasoned, therefore, that traveling back and forth did not affect the child substantially so as to warrant a change in the visitation schedule. The mother appealed.

 

The Appellate Division began by stating the applicable law in New Jersey with regard to the modification of a visitation schedule – namely, the party requesting the modification must make a showing that circumstances have changed such that the agreement is no longer in the best interests of the child. This issue involves a two-step inquiry:

 

The party seeking a modification must first make a prima facie….showing that a genuine issue of fact exists bearing upon a critical question such as the best interests of the child[ ]…Once a prima facie showing is made, [the party] is entitled to a plenary hearing to resolve the disputed facts. Indeed, when a genuine and substantial issue concerning parenting time exists, the court is required to refer the case to mediation….

 

The Appellate Division recognized that while the parties’ son was doing well in school and has not manifested any overt detriment as a result of the parenting time schedule, there were certain undisputed facts that would require the parties to attend mediation or the court to order a plenary hearing in accordance with the factors set forth in the statute (N.J.S.A. 9-2:4(c)). The reason for the was most obviously because the child had grown older and the parties’ employment responsibilities had changed. There was also no evidence of the child’s preference because the trial court did not interview the child. The Appellate Division further appeared uncomfortable with the trial court’s “wait and see” approach with regard to any consequential harm to the child as a result of the changes. As a result, the Court reversed the trial court’s decision and remanded the matter back to the trial court for further proceedings consistent with the Appellate Division’s opinion.

Is Keeping the House Really a Good Idea?

We are in the midst of the Spring real estate season and this is the time during a divorce when one spouse will inevitably want to list the marital home for sale. Often times, the parent likely to be the primary custodial parent will offer resistance with the best of intentions, because he or she wants to keep the house for the kids.

I am often approached by a client who tells me that they are willing to give up other assets in order to maintain the marital home. This may be for a variety of reasons, but most often because a parent wants to minimize the trauma of the divorce on the children and believes that remaining in the home that they have grown up in is the way to accomplish that.

 

But, at what cost? While minimizing transition for the kids is an admirable goal, I find that in many cases, the person who wants to stay in the house does not truly understand the expenses associated with keeping the house, both now and in the future. So I try to make sure, sometimes with the assistance of a financial adviser, that my client is making a decision that really makes financial sense.

 

In the vast majority of cases, the person who will keep the house has to refinance, or otherwise assume a mortgage in order to remove the other spouse from liability for the mortgage and note as well as any home equity lines of the property. This means they have to be able to qualify for the entire amount of debt on the home by themselves. Plus, they have to pay all of the costs associated with the financing such as closing costs and points on the mortgage. Finally, they will likely have to pay the other spouse one half of any equity in the home. This costs can be substantial.

 

When paying the other spouse their equity in the home, sometimes there are other assets with which to offset the issue of paying off the other spouse. However, this is not a step to take lightly. Often, I see litigants give up all of their other liquid assets in order to keep the house. The result can be that there are no savings in case of an emergency, or in the event of loss of employment, something that is a real threat in the present economy. Other times, litigants will trade off their share of their spouses retirement to keep the house. This is a dangerous move, particularly if the litigant has traditionally been the non working spouse throughout the marriage and does not have enough years to accumulate retirement funds after the marriage is over. As we know from the current real estate market, we can’t count on the value of property to go up or even remain the same.

 Finally, what are the costs going forward to maintain the house? When I have a client who is considering retaining the marital home, I take out the Case Information Statement ( that pesky financial form with budget information) and go through Schedule A with a fine tooth comb with my client. How much are the utilities really expected to be? What is the cost of cutting the lawn if you had previously relied on your spouse to do it for you? How old is the dishwasher, the washer and dryer and will they need to be replaced soon? Did you have a “handy man” type spouse who will not now be available for all those little repairs? What type of maintenance has been put off that is going to be an issue within the next few years and will the client have the funds to pay?

 

At the end of the day, I make sure that my clients carefully consider all of these issues before making the decision to keep the house. Kids are unbelievably resilient , far more so than we give them credit for. And, I do think that they will ultimately be happier in a home in which the parent is not stressed by financial issues related to keeping it.


EDITOR'S NOTE:  As far back as September 2008, before the economy really declined, but in the midst of the decline of the real estate market from the highs in the mid 2000s, I blogged about whether it made sense to keep a marital home in a declining real estate market.  It was beginning to make little sense then, and even less sense now, to offset/trade a depreciating asset such as real estate against cash or cash equivalents (or for that matter, any asset that was not depreciating). In February 2010, I blogged about the different options in distributing the marital home given the then (and still) current issues facing real estate.  As there is talk that the real estate market will continue to worsen, serious consideration is required regarding what to do with the marital home.  Eric S. Solotoff

Read Leslie Spoltore's Post on Delware's New Civil Union Bill

Leslie Spoltore, a partner in our Wilmington, Delaware office, wrote a post on the Delaware Trial Practice Blog entitled "Civil Union Bill Provides For Divorce/Annulment In the Delaware Family Court."

The bill, which becomes effective on January 1, 2012, the right of a same-sex couple to both form a union, as well as the couple’s right to terminate their union. The bill confers upon the Delaware Family Court the right to hear actions to dissolve civil unions brought by residents of the State of Delaware. In addition, the legislation permits Family Court to hear actions for divorce and annulment of civil unions filed by non-residents if the union was solemnized in Delaware and if the jurisdiction in which a party to the union lives does not permit such an action for divorce or annulment.  Put another way, even if the couple no longer lives in Delaware, if the state in which they live will not allow for a divorce or other legal termination of the relationship, if the relationship was formalized in Delaware, the parties can return there for a dissolution.

TEMPORARY REMOVAL DURING A REMOVAL LITIGATION - TACTICAL ADVANTAGE OR COMMON SENSE?

A New Jersey trial court recently held in the published (precedential) decision of McKinley v. Naters that it was appropriate under a given set of circumstances to allow for the pre-trial, temporary removal of a child to another state for what it described as “extended vacation purposes” to provide the child with a “reasonable opportunity . . . to experience living in the proposed new state prior to trial.”  When I read the court’s conclusion, which is briefly laid out on the first page of the Opinion, my first thought was the seeming tactical advantage that would inure to the parent seeking removal.   After a full review of the court’s conclusions and rationale, however, it seems that the interests of both parties were properly balanced so as not to provide leverage to one party over the other.    

The facts are relatively straightforward for a removal scenario.  The parties divorced in 2002 and the settlement agreement provided for shared residential custody of the child.  In May 2010, Mom filed a motion seeking to permanently relocate to Florida with the child.  She claimed that she and her present spouse sought to relocate there for employment reasons, the child would have greater educational opportunities in Florida, and he would “enjoy life” more in Florida than in New Jersey.  Dad opposed Mom’s motion and sought residential custody of the child.

A plenary hearing was scheduled to occur in August 2010 and, in the interim, the parties could attempt to mediate and conduct discovery.  A psychological expert was appointed by the court to perform a custody evaluation.  In June, Mom filed a motion seeking the court’s permission to “temporarily remove” the child from New Jersey to Florida for 4 weeks for “extended vacation” purposes, and so the child could obtain a “feel” for the new neighborhood in Florida.  Dad opposed the request.  Not surprisingly, each party claimed that the other’s position was nothing more than an effort to obtain an advantage in the litigation.

The court granted Mom’s request, but modified the time from 4 weeks to 2 weeks, also providing Dad with two weeks of such “extended vacation” in New Jersey.  The child’s age in this case – 15 years old – was of great import to the court in its decision, as well as the child’s capacity to reason.  The court found that, under every possible legal analysis in removal applications (including the Baures factors, factors for a change of custody analysis under N.J.S.A. 9:2-4, and N.J.S.A. 9:2-2), the child’s expressed preference was relevant to the court’s decision.   The court noted that none of the laws or cases cited prevent a child’s temporary removal from the jurisdiction for “legitimate purposes, particularly under court order.” 

As a result, the court found that its crafted resolution provided the child with a sensible, “reasonable opportunity” to experience life in both states under the care of each party prior to trial, rather than base any expressed preference on nothing more than speculation.  Since the child was 15, the court determined that he could inform the court of his preference during an “in camera” (in chambers) interview with the trial judge pursuant to Rule 5:8-6 of New Jersey’s Rules of Court.   The court also found its decision appropriate because it would not interfere with the child’s present schooling; Mom had no history of violating court orders or otherwise demonstrating a flight risk; and, by its resolution, Dad was provided with an “equitable opportunity” for the child to take an “extended vacation” in New Jersey as well during the pre-trial phase. 

Thus, the court’s decision was clearly fact-specific.  Had the situation involved a younger child, for instance, the court might have ruled differently.

LIVING TOGETHER DURING A DIVORCE - THE RIGHT DECISION OR THE ONLY CHOICE?

Do I have to continue living with him during the divorce?  Can I force her to leave?  Can I just move out?  If I move out, can I take the children with me?  These questions arise during the course of almost every divorce proceeding, and the answers are often not what people want to hear.

In New Jersey, the general answer to whether you can "make" the other party leave the home during the divorce is "no," except if that other party commits an act of domestic violence that results in a restraining order.  Other than that, the options are limited.  For instance, there exists what is known amongst New Jersey family lawyers as "Roberts" relief, allowing a court to Order the removal of a spouse without an event of domestic violence, so-named after an older case that many courts choose to no longer even follow in light of current domestic violence laws.  We were recently successful in obtaining one spouse's removal from the marital residence pursuant to Roberts, but the circumstances there were so severe that such relief was warranted to prevent irreparable harm from happening to the children. 

With such limited options, often the only choice for parties is to continue living together during the divorce.  If the parties are able to get along and co-exist, recognizing that children living in the home will potentially be impacted long-term by what goes on in the home during the proceedings, problems are less likely to arise.  By contrast, however, if the matter is acrimonious, there can be few things worse than having to live together, especially if the matter drags on for months, if not years.  During one matter in which we were involved, it took almost three years before the parties ultimately settled.  During that time, the parties continued to reside in the marital home together with their young children.  By the time the matter was complete, one parent had completely alienated the children against the other parent, reunification therapy was necessary and the parties were completely unable to be near each other, let alone communicate in a rational manner.  While filing a motion to address such circumstances is more than appropriate, there is only so much Court intervention can do when it is not there to oversee the day-to-day occurrences in the marital home.

Another result of these limited living options is that spouses are often hyper-vigilant to anything that goes on in the home.  One party (if not both) is often recording the other party without his or her knowledge and, in an effort to obtain what is believed to be usable "evidence" in the divorce proceedings, will incite arguments, welcome conflict, and the like.  Every argument appears heightened and can be abusive, often leading to the domestic violence complaint and temporary restraining order that the alleged victim hopes will become a final order to keep the other party out of the home for good.  Whether a court finds, however, that the argument that resulted in the restraining order was heightened merely because of the divorce or was an actual act of domestic violence requiring immediate protection is a steep hill for the victim to climb.  The result could be a dismissal of the domestic violence complaint, thereby allowing the accused spouse to actually move back into the marital residence!  In one matter in which we were involved, the temporary restraining order was dismissed after a final hearing and, within a few hours, the other spouse was at the front door of the home to get back in. 

Another option is to mutually agree to withdraw the domestic violence complaint and enter into an Order by consent, incorporating "civil" restraints that are enforceable by a motion in your divorce proceeding.  A common restraint as part of such orders is that the defendant spouse in the domestic violence complaint will agree to stay out of the home.  However, that spouse will often refuse to agree to stay out of the home, knowing the potential financial and custodial impacts his departure may cause for the overall outcome of the divorce proceeding.

At that point, can you leave the home?  Of course.  Can you leave with the children?  Usually not without a set parenting schedule upon your departure or some form of Order allowing you to do so.  While you might have always been the primary caretaker, that usually does not necessarily entitle you to simply vacate the home with the children and dictate parenting time as you see fit.  From the other parent's perspective, he might believe that you are simply looking to get a "leg up" in the litigation, just as he might have felt you were trying to do when you filed that domestic violence complaint during the divorce proceeding. 

To that end, many cases commence with one party having already left the home for a variety of reasons.  If the spouse who vacated the home was financially supporting the household, and the other spouse remains in the marital home with the children, he might find it financially difficult to support two households during the divorce proceedings stemming from a pendente lite (during the proceeding) support obligation.  It is all too common for that supporting spouse to all of a sudden show up at the door as the divorce starts, seeking to move back in.  Whether his lawyer advised him to move back home because of the financial burden that is soon to befall upon him, or that he is hurting his own custody claim if he is not in the same residence with the children 24-7 during the divorce, oftentimes he has the ability to move back in to the chagrin of the other spouse. 

Where does that leave us?  It is for that reason why getting along or simply managing to co-exist in the marital residence (whether for the sake of the children or otherwise) is critical to moving a divorce matter forward in what one hopes will be a reasonable manner.

Another Decision from the Appellate Division on the Consequences of Cohabitation on Alimony

As a follow up to my blog post of last week, this week the Appellate Division came down with yet another cohabitation decision. The case of Pizzuti v. Proctor was decided on March 31, 2011. In Pizzuti, the wife appealed from a decision wherein the trial court terminated her former husband’s alimony obligation of $100 per week on a finding of changed circumstances based on the wife’s cohabitation with an unrelated male.

At the trial level the husband submitted a myriad of proofs that the wife was cohabitating in support of his obligation to terminate alimony. His efforts were for naught however, because the fact that she was cohabitating went completely uncontested. Indeed, in response to the husband’s allegations, the wife stated as follows: "I will spare the Court the trouble of scheduling a plenary hearing because I admit that I do cohabitate with Mr. Argenzio at his home, located [in] Ramsey, New Jersey and have been since 1999." However, as I stated in my previous blog, proof of cohabitation is only half the battle. The next inquiry is whether, by virtue of the cohabitation, the wife was economically dependant on her new paramour. In New Jersey, the fact of economic dependence is presumed upon a showing of cohabitation, and it is incumbent the cohabitating spouse to prove otherwise.

To that end, the following facts were adduced at trial in support of the husband’s contentions: the former wife had increased her earnings of approximately $13,900 at the time of the divorce in 1998 to earning approximately $30,000 working part-time; she was receiving $900 per month of pension income from one of her former husband’s defined benefit funds; she admitted to $1,400 per month, attributable to Mr. Argenzio, which she alleged it would have cost her to rent an apartment in Ramsey. The former husband also established that his former spouse lived in two locations with Mr. Argenzio, a home in Ramsey, which is assessed at $472,800, and a condominium in Hollywood, Florida, purchased for $460,000, which has no mortgage, which they jointly owned. In addition, the husband showed that they have several jointly-titled bank accounts, that alimony checks were deposited on occasion in Mr. Argenzio's account, and they had at least one joint brokerage account. The husband also pointed out that the wife took a vacation in Italy in 2004; a cruise to Hawaii in April 2005; a vacation in the Caribbean in Spring 2006; a vacation in Napa, California; a trip to Aruba in 2007; and a vacation in New England in 2008.

In granting the husband’s application, the trial judge stated as follows:

…the key really is the marital standard. And I thought about granting a plenary hearing. And I had to look to see whether I felt that the defendant had made a strong enough case so that with some of the disputes of fact that are clearly in the record, are they sufficient to require a plenary hearing. And I think the answer is no.

There was, you know, with the amount of money that she's making herself, plus the pension, plus the other bank accounts, plus the credit from Mr. Argenzio, those things together I think certainly show that she is able to live at the marital standard without the alimony. So even though it was not an easy decision to come to, I did review the record on both sides and I am going to grant the application of Mr. Proctor to terminate his alimony obligation.

The Appellate Division agreed, ostensibly for the same reasons as expressed by the trial court. The Appellate Division seemingly found most compelling the fact that the wife and her paramour had developed a “marriage type” relationship, along with the economic dependence that typically accompanies it. Moreover, the Court found that the former wife’s marital lifestyle could be satisfied without the alimony - thereby obviating the need for payments from the former husband. By way of commentary on the issue, the court remarked that the trial judge was actually charitable to the wife in indicating that her present standard of living “satisfied” the prior lifestyle when the former appears to have surpassed the latter with the two residences that she now uses. The Appellate Division therefore affirmed the decision of the trial court terminating the former husband’s alimony obligations.

Parenting Time via Skype - Virtual Visitation Is Here

With the advancements in technology, one of the buzz words we have begun hearing about "virtual visitation."   In fact, recently, Julie Ganz, an associate in our Chester County, Pennsylvania office did a piece on our Pennsylvania Family Law Blog on "virtual visitation" and how it is being approved for use in a number of states.  Clearly, with cameras on computers, video chatting, Skype, Face Time on Apple products and the like, the quality of parenting time that a non-custodial parent can have with their children is improved.  Put another way, it seems that being able to actually see children, while not in person, and to have them see their parent, is still better then a phone call, email or text.

At least one court in New Jersey has followed the trend.  Specifically, in Margueron v. Baik an unreported Appellate Division opinion decided on March 21. 2011, a trial court's Order requiring the mother to cooperate with establishing a SKYPE account to enable the father to see and communicate with his child by way of the internet. was upheld.  The facts in the opinion are scant but what is known is that the father was returning to France.  The order also provided that father  have extended parenting time with the child in August each year, one additional week each year, and extended time at Christmas in alternate years. The Appellate Division held that "The judge crafted a schedule that allows communication between father and child that accounts for the geographical distance between them." 

While in this case, the issue was one of distance, the question remains as to whether distance should be a prerequisite to using the new technology, or whether it should be used in every case, no matter the distance.  A complaint, if not painfully sad lament from many non-custodial parents is that they used to get to see their children every day but now they can go days without "seeing" them.  While "virtual visitation" will unlikely ever be a replacement for the real thing, if available, why not use it?  We shall see what the court's do with this going forward.

Child Support Obligations Live On After Death

Failure to carry life insurance as required in divorce related to will support will not relieve the estate of the decedent.   In a recent case where a decedent’s estate challenged the right of the ex-spouse to enforce an obligation to carry life insurance, a trial court’s decision to force the estate to pay was  upheld.   As most people with children who are divorced know, the typical settlement agreement or judgment of divorce contains an obligation to carry some amount of life insurance in order to replace a parent’s child support obligation in the event of that parent’s untimely death. Luckily, statistics say that the life insurance will not be needed, but as we all know, sometimes tragedies happen.

Such was the case in the recently decided matter of In the Estate of John P. Boyle,deceased.  To view the case, click here  In that matter, John P.was divorced from his wife, Susan, in July, 1995. They had one child, John M.Boyle. The judgment of divorce provided for a term of alimony to be paid to Susan as well as for child support on behalf of John M.. At the time of divorce, he was obligated to maintain a $250,000 life insurance policy for his ex-wife and his child. When the alimony obligation was finished, the beneficiary of the policy was to be his son. Relevant to this case was the provision that the decedent was to “continue to provide a life insurance policy through his place of employment in the amount of $250,000...” When the alimony obligation ended, John  P, the father changed the beneficiary designation to his son, John M. 

Years later, John P developed depression, and then lung cancer, and eventually left his place of employment. He passed away when John M was nineteen and attending college. John M then found out that his father had terminated the life insurance policy several years prior when he left his employment. The decedent’s executor probated the will, and John M filed an action against the estate seeking payment of $250,000 based on his father’s obligation to maintain the life insurance policy.

 

The trial judge in the Probate Part found that John P had breached his obligation to maintain the life insurance policy and entered judgement against the estate in the amount of $250,000. The estate appealed. First, the estate tried to argue that the matter should have been heard in the Family Part, as it is only a Family Part judge that has the authority yo enforce the obligation arising from a matrimonial action. The Appellate court rejected this argument.

 

The estate next argued that since the judgment of divorce provided that the life insurance was to be though his place of employment, there was no obligation to maintain life insurance after he left his job when he became ill. The trial court disagreed, finding that the words,  “through his place of employment” were merely descriptive of the policy. The court noted that children are third party beneficiaries of marital settlement agreements and further that parents have an obligation to provide security of continued support for children. The Appellate Division agreed.

 

Finally, since John M was over the age of eighteen at the time of his father’s death, the estate tried to argue that there was no longer an obligation to carry the insurance. The court found this argument without merit as John M was a full time college student, living with and dependent on his mother, at the time of his father’s death.

 

This case offers some important reminders for those in the process of negotiating a settlement agreement, or who are asking for support during a trial. In addition to simply making a request to have the payor maintain life insurance, make sure it is clear that the obligation exists regardless of whether there is employment related insurance or not. Moreover, make sure that any settlement agreement clearly states that in the event of a death, any unfulfilled obligations become obligations of the estate of the obligor. These simple tips can help avoid litigation later on.

Appellate Division Upholds the Definition of Maternity in the Age of Reproductive Technology

Typically, when people think of a parentage a dispute, it is the father’s paternity which is at issue. However, with emerging science that paradigm is shifting. Specifically, with assisted reproductive technology on the rise, interesting questions crop up regarding the both of the child’s legal parents. This is because when a surrogate is used, hospital and state birth record procedures mandate that the surrogate’s name is put on the original birth record as the child’s mother simply because she gave birth. If the surrogate is married, her husband’s name is also normally put on the original birth record as the father. Therefore, the surrogate must cooperate in the establishment of parentage as to the intended parents in some sort of legal proceeding, either before or after birth, depending on the state.

This new facet of the law was explored in New Jersey in the Appellate Division’s approved for publication opinion of In the Matter of the Parentage of a Child by T.J.S. and A.L.S., ___ N.J. Super. ___ (App. Div. Feb. 23, 2011). There, the Appellate Division whether the New Jersey Parentage Act (Parentage Act), N.J.S.A. 9:17-38 to -59, recognizes an infertile wife as the legal mother of her husband's biological child, born to a surrogate, and, if not, whether the statutory omission violates equal protection by treating women differently than similarly-situated infertile men, whose paternity is presumed under New Jersey law when their wives give birth during the marriage. The Appellate Division held that the Parentage Act did not apply to maternity under the circumstances presented by this case and the differing treatment of infertile husbands and wives was not a constitutional violation.

The plaintiffs in this case, T.J.S., the biological father, and A.L.S., his wife were infertile as A.L.S. was unable to carry a child to term. As a result, the husband and wife resorted to reproductive technology to assist them in having a child. They opted to have a child with the help of a surrogate. This involved arranging for the in vitro fertilization (IVF) of an ovum furnished by an anonymous donor using the sperm of T.J.S. The result was two human embryos which were implanted into a surrogate, A.F., who was to carry the child to term. The embryos were biologically related to the donor of the ovum and to T.J.S., but not to the wife or the surrogate.

Before the birth, the husband and wife sought to be declared the child’s father and mother under the Parentage Act, and requested a “pre-birth order” that required their names to be listed on the child’s birth certificate as the child’s parents. The husband and wife specifically rejected adoption because it would extend the process, during which time the child’s legal status would be in limbo. The trial court ordered that the birth certificate that was to be placed on file for the child was to reflect T.J.S. as the father and A.L.S. as the mother, on the condition that that the surrogate, A.F., surrender her rights to the child 72 hours after giving birth. The child, T.D.S., was born on July 7, 2009. Three days later, the surrogate relinquished all parental rights to the child.

Shortly after the child’s birth, the State Registrar learned about the order of the trial court and filed a motion in the trial court to vacate the listing of A.L.S. as the mother on the child’s birth certificate. The trial court granted that motion.

The husband and wife appealed. They argued that because the Parentage Act, presumptively conferred paternity upon a husband where the child was born to the wife during marriage, or automatically under the law, where the wife is artificially inseminated using the sperm of a donor, it should be read in a gender neutral fashion so as to apply to the infertile wife as well. They further argued that if the statute is not construed as such, it would be unconstitutional on its face because infertile married men and women are treated differently under the law.

The Appellate Division began by examining the history of the statute. While noting that the presumption, that a man is the father of a child born to his wife, extends to a husband who consents to his wife being inseminated with donor sperm under the supervision of a licensed physician, the Court noted that the same presumption is specifically not extended to a wife whose husband, while married, fathers a child with another woman. However, this mother-child relationship can be established with relative ease through adoption. Thus, the Appellate Division concluded, that the plain language of the Act, only provides for a declaration of maternity as to the biologically or gestationally-related female and requires adoption to render A.L.S. the mother of T.D.S.

Because the Court concluded that Parentage Act could not be interpreted in a gender neutral manner, the Appellate Division turned to the question of whether a gender-based classification for infertile married women and infertile married men was unconstitutional. After expounding upon New Jersey’s equal-protection jurisprudence, the Appellate Division concluded that the gender-based classification was not unconstitutional because it was only applied to married husbands as the purpose was to address scenarios where there is a strong likelihood that the man is the biological father of a child. Indeed, the legislature’s intent behind the enactment of the statute was to establish paternity “to facilitate the flow of benefits from the father to the child" – i.e. to ensure that the man would not be able to evade his financial obligations to a child born during the marriage. Moreover, the Court reasoned that the language of the statute makes clear that A.L.S. cannot be the presumptive legal mother of the child born to the surrogate simply because she is not the biological mother of the child. Rather, the child is biologically related to T.J.S. and the anonymous ovum donor. A presumption of motherhood under these circumstances would therefore be contrary to the Legislature’s intent behind the enactment of the statute.

In so concluding the Court re-examined the seminal New Jersey case of In re Baby M, 109 N.J. 396 (1988). There, the Supreme Court specifically declined to extend the statute’s applicability to the circumstance at hand:

The Parentage Act's silence . . . with respect to surrogacy, rather than supporting, defeats any contention that surrogacy should receive treatment parallel to the sperm donor artificial insemination situation. In the latter case the statute expressly transfers parental rights from the biological father, i.e., the sperm donor, to the mother's husband. . . . Our Legislature could not possibly have intended any other arrangement to have the consequence of transferring parental rights without legislative authorization when it had concluded that legislation was necessary to accomplish that result in the sperm donor artificial insemination context.

Finding the reasoning of the Supreme Court to be sound, the Appellate Division thus found that because the statute already withstood judicial scrutiny in the face of an equal protection challenge, and because the lack of Legislature response to the issues raised by the Supreme Court’s decision in In re Baby M, the plaintiffs’ argument that the Parentage Act should be re-drafted to address their specific situation was rejected. The Court further reasoned:

…paternity attaches to the infertile husband because of the sperm donor's lack of temporal, physical, and emotional investment in the child's creation. This stands in sharp contrast to the surrogate mother whose parental rights are deemed worthy of protection and thus stand in the way of the infertile wife's claim to automatic motherhood.

While the Appellate Division did not “deny the intrinsic societal worth, emotional
appeal, and compelling logic of granting A.L.S. parenthood to the child, T.D.S., provided the gestational carrier's rights are protected during the statutory seventy-two hour ‘window’ period,” it noted that the fact remains that “the means chosen by the Legislature to create that status in this instance remains adoption, rather than by operation of the Parentage Act.” The Court further remained satisfied that the that the complained of disparate treatment is not grounded in societal notions of parenthood, but rather in the innate reproductive and biological differences between men and women, necessitating in the case of an infertile wife, the introduction of a birth mother whom the law cloaks with superior protection. Thus, given the State's valid interest in identifying the father more easily when the child is born during the marriage for child support purposes, and its equally sound interest in requiring more than a shared intent before legally changing the parental relationship between parent and child, the Court concluded that the distinctions drawn by the Legislature in the Parentage Act are constitutional.
 

Beware of R.A.I.D.S. - 2011

There is a not too uncommon phenomenon that is frequently seen in divorce cases.  Specifically, as soon as the notion of a divorce action become a reality, many supporting spouse's incomes suddenly, and usually without valid explanation, drop substantially.  It may come as no surprise that someone may want to manipulate their income when an alimony or child support obligation is about to be set.  This affliction is sometimes known as "R.A.I.D.S." or Rapidly Acquired Income Deficiency Syndrome (sometimes also known as "SIDS"  Sudden Income Deficiency Syndrome.)  In fact, income reduction during the year of a divorce is so common for a self employed individual there is a natural skepticism about it.

I did a blog on this phenomenon in May 2008 and was recently asked for permission that it be reproduced for publication for an CLE program in Indiana.  That cased me to look at it again and update it below.

As noted then, there are times when there are valid, legitimate and explainable deviations in someones income.  Some people are in commission sales and one year is legitimately better than another.  Perhaps someones income is tied to real estate.  Back then, I gave the example that a person may have a legitimate reason why 2007 and 2008 were down years, citing mortgage bankers and realtors as people who were probably hurting then. Those people are probably still hurting as are commercial real estate brokers, builders, contractors and other people tied to the real estate industry.  Since that time, Wall Street has changed substantially.  While the market is now coming back, there has been much turmoil in the last two and a half years and many have gone through job changes.  Some medical professionals are working harder and making less.  Accountants that worked with small businesses may have fewer clients and lower revenues in light of the recent recession.

 At the time of the original blog, I talked of a recent where if you looked at my client's tax returns and W-2s, one would think that support should have been based upon a seven figure income as opposed to a mid-six figure income.  In this case, there were some discrete one time payments from exercises of stock options and change of control of companies that he worked for.  (As it turned out, his subsequent income was more in line with the lower number as opposed to the higher number, justifying our excluding the non-recurring income from consideration).

Situations of legitimately fluctuating income were not what I was talking about.  In fact, when there is non-recurring income, it may be legitimate to back it out for purposes of computing support or else the support would not be fair to the payor.  When income legitimately fluctuates from year to year, the Child Support Guidelines and decisional law suggest taking an average (3 or 5 years is common). 

The cases that I was talking about are those where there is no explanation for the sudden drop in income.  Very often, this occurs when the supporting spouse is self employed.  There are many ways income is hidden.  Sometimes, it is just not collected - as possibly evidenced by a large rise in accounts receivable.  Sometimes, there may be several capital expenditures or large equipment purchases, which reduce the profits and thus the income.  Other times, perquisites or personal expenses paid by the business increase dramatically.  Check the business credit cards - they are often illuminating in this regard.  Cash is also a possibility as are other manipulations with payments received.   We have a case now where we suspect payments to a third party to divert a spouses income.  Sometimes a person's loan account and/or cash at hand increases without explanation suggesting that money is being left in the business for no reason.

In these cases, discovery is critical to smoke out the true income and real reason for the alleged reduction in income.  The use of a forensic accountant is often essential to get to the correct income number.  

RAIDS is certainly an illness that can be diagnosed and with the proper team of lawyers and experts, cured so that the supported spouse is treated fairly. 

Custody Disputes: Keeping your kids out of the middle of the divorce

Recently, on a miserable cold day, my husband and son were watching a marathon of the original “Twighlight Zone” series. For those of you who may not know, this was Rod Serling’s popular science fiction series that ran from 1959-1964. I walked into the room just as the episode “ The Bewitchin’ Pool” episode was beginning. The episode begins as the family is sitting outside by their in ground pool with the parents dropping that they are getting a divorce, and, in  angry voices, mom and dad tell the children that they have to decide who they want to live with. The fact that the children then jump into the pool and travel through a magical portal and meet a kindly old woman is not relevant to this story.

What is relevant is the next day, Monday, I came into work to a message from a client as to the interaction that had occurred with children of my client. And I realize that sadly, parents in a divorce have not evolved for the better in the 47 years that have passed since the episode aired. My client had informed be that in the midst of a rage, his spouse had told the kids that she had never liked their father, they were getting a divorce, and who do you want to live with? At that point I felt as if I was the one swimming underwater.

 

Just stop it. The answer is easy. The child or children want to live with both parents. They do not want to move from their house, and they want to have dinner with both parents at the table. And most of all, the kids do not want to feel that they are the ones who have to make the decision of who to live with. With all due respect to the many talented Ph D’s in child psychology that I work with regularly, it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure this out.

 

So what to do? Keep your children out of it! If they ask, let them know that you as parents, with help from the judge, will decide what is best for them. If they have to go through a custody evaluation and meet with someone, just tell them that that person is going to ask them things about what they like, and what they do during the day, and that they do not have to choose. And make sure they know that no matter what happens, you will both love them. Judges and custody evaluators are smart; they clearly know when a child has been coached, and in addition to being unfair to the child, all that coaching is going to do is look bad on the parent who does it. If one parent is acting poorly, don’t rise to the challenge; rise above it. Maybe not now, but at the end of the road, the kids are going to know which parent was the one who acted fairly, and which one did not.

Madoff Mess Hits the Divorce Courts Part II - The Appellate Court Speaks

Last year, I wrote a post on this blog about the Madoff Mess hitting the divorce Courts, the trial court's decision in that case and even a podcast that I had participated in about the decision.

In this case, in June 2006, the parties agreed to evenly split the $5.4 million in an account they had with Madoff Securities. As a result, the husband gave the wife $2.7 million in cash, and retained the account. As a result of the Madoff Ponzi scheme that has essentially rendered the account worthless, the husband has filed suit seeking the $2.7 million that he paid the wife. The husband (a prominent attorney with a large NY law firm) alleged that because the account turned out to be valueless, the spirit of the agreement was broken. The wife's position was the husband withdrew probably $3 million to pay the wife, so the asset did exist at the time of the settlement agreement.
 

Acting New York State Supreme Court acting Justice Saralee Evans decided that the husband is stuck with his decision to keep the account instead of withdrawing his money before the December 2008 collapse of Bernard L. Madoff Investment Securities LLC. The Justice noted that while the husband claimed the Madoff account held no assets, he did not allege it had no value. Key to the decision was that in 2006 and "the several years after that plaintiff maintained this investment," the account "could have been redeemed for cash, presumably significantly in excess of its 2004 value." In addition, the Justice held that "An investor's ability to redeem an account for value, was the assumption on which the parties relied in dividing their property and in doing so they made no mistake."The public policy of the finality of settlements was upheld.
 

At the time, I wondered about the ultimate fairness of this and said:

That said, if this case was in New Jersey, there may be the possibility of a recovery here. Though the general rule is that equitable distribution is not-modifiable, the issue may turn on whether there was $5.7 million in the account at the time of the divorce or whether that was simply an illusion created by Madoff's alleged fraud. If the account really had no value at that time, then the parties made a "mutual mistake". In that case, the settlement agreement could be re-formed to create an equitable result. If the money was actually in the account at that time, there could be a different result. One could argue that this really wasn't any different than any other investment that loses value - though that result seems harsh. However, assuming the husband had that money in your ordinary stock account, given the stock market over the last year and current financial crisis, it seems unlikely that his $5.4 million would still be $5.4 million. If there were just stock losses, it is highly unlikely that he would be entitled to any relief. Moreover, it is not unlikely that if the wife invested her $2.7 million in stock or real estate, that she has her full $2.7 million either.

Whether is is ultimately fair since the asset may not have really existed is another story. It is different than retaining a stock account and then the market goes up or down because in that instance, there really was an asset as opposed to a fictional asset. It is also different than holding on to a home whose value has decreased, as I have blogged on before.

It turned out, the Appellate Division in New York agreed with my logic and reversed the dismissal of the trial court matter and allowing the matter to be opened up.

The Appellate Court found that dismissal was improper and the husband had the right to try to pursue both the issues of mutual mistake (i.e. there never really was an account) and that the wife was unjustly enriched.  In coming to its decision, the majority of the court held:

The dissent states: “[a]t the time of the agreement, Steven had an account in his name with [Madoff].” Untrue. Steven never had an account in  his name with Madoff; on Madoff's own admission there were no accounts within which trades were made on behalf of investors.

The dissent then states, “Steven liquidated part of the account to fund his payments to Laura.”  Untrue. In Madoff's Ponzi scheme what appeared to Steven and Laura to be a partial liquidation of an account was simply a payment to Steven that came from funds deposited by a more recent “investor” in what the “investor” believed was his own account.

The dissent further observes, “[Steven] did not liquidate the rest of the Madoff account ... and he continued to invest in it.” Untrue. There was no account which could be liquidated, as became apparent when Madoff received $7 billion worth of “liquidation” calls from investors in 2008. Nor was Steven “investing” in an account; his further contributions went directly to pay other “investors” in the scheme.

Clearly, this case is far from over.  We will update you when the next move is reported from the courts.

Divorce Insurance: a New Trend?

Surfing the internet on a recent morning, I noticed an advertisement for divorce insurance. This was news to me, as I had never seen nor heard anyone talk about such a thing. Practicing family law for twenty years, you would think that I would have noticed this before, but I haven’t. Indeed ,the website that I was viewing stated that it was the only company to offer such a policy. The premise behind the insurance policy is that an individual can purchase “units” of insurance which correspond to a payout in the event of a subsequent divorce.   This payout can be used towards any divorce expenses including legal fees and distribution of assets, although the web site that I was viewing did not actually contain any restrictions.   The website that I was viewing was selling units of $1250. So in other words, if a potential policy holder believed that his or her particular situation would warrant $125,000, then he or she would purchase 100 units of insurance. The policy is paid on the presentment of a final judgment or decree of divorce, and is payable to the insured in a lump sum. To prevent people from purchasing the insurance when a marriage is already in shambles, there is a waiting period of four years. If the insured gets divorced within the waiting period, all premiums ( less taxes) are returned to the policy holder.

So when my head stopped spinning, and after I thought how such a policy could be subject to fraud ( two spouses obtaining a policy and then divorcing just to collect- then possibly remarrying), I wondered how this fits in with New Jersey matrimonial law as we know it. Can this insurance policy be considered an asset of the marriage which would be distributable to both parties? Would it be considered income for support purposes? This raises all sorts of issues!

 

In New Jersey, all assets that were acquired during the marriage, regardless of whose name the asset is titled in, is an asset of the marriage which is subject to distribution in a divorce. In the event of a policy that was purchased during the marriage by one spouse and that spouse paid the premiums from income earned during the marriage, is the payout an asset? I believe the answer is likely yes. Indeed, I believe that it would be treated the same as the value of a whole life insurance policy, the premiums of which has been paid during the marriage. On the other hand, I am sure an argument can be made that it is only the sum total of the premiums that were paid which constitute the distributable asset.

 

Alternatively, consider the situation in which one spouse has an account that was his or hers prior to the marriage, and never places that account in joint names, and never commingles marital funds in the account. Then, I believe that the policy and the payout would belong to the purchasing spouse.

 

In addition, if a third party, say a parent of a spouse purchases the insurance in the name of the spouse, this may be considered a gift from a third party, which is also not distributable in a divorce. I can just imagine the father who never thought the husband was "good enough" for his daughter running out to purchase a policy.

 

So what about support? The most significant factor considered for both spousal support as well as child support is obviously income, and income from assets is included in that.  If a policy holder has a payout of $250,000 ( the limit of the policy I was viewing), and the prevailing interest rate is 4%, do we add $10,000 of income for support calculations?

 

I have no doubt that these will be the type of questions that we will begin to see if indeed these policies are purchased by New Jersey couples who find themselves in a divorce. 

CAN MY LAWYER AGREE TO A SETTLEMENT ON MY BEHALF? MAYBE!

A question that sometimes arises is whether an attorney can agree to a settlement on behalf of their client.  In an unreported (non-precedential) Appellate Division opinion released on April 13, 2010  in the case of Sweeney v. Sweeney, the court answered that question with a resounding maybe.

In this case, the wife alleged that on the night before trial, the parties' attorneys had "intense" settlement negotiations that lead to a resolution of all issues except for a section of the agreement entitled "General Mutual Releases."  On the following day, the husband appeared without his lawyer and disputed that there was a settlement.  The divorce was put through on that day but not the settlement.  Rather, the wife filed a motion for enforcement of the agreement reached between counsel.  Despite the fact that there were conflicting certifications, her motion was granted. 

The Appellate Division reversed the matter for a plenary hearing to determine whether the husband actually vested his attorney with the authority to bind him to a settlement.  Citing the general from the reported decision of Amatuzzo v. Kozmiuk, governing the scope of an attorney's authority to bind his or
her client to a settlement agreement, the Appellate Division noted:

The general rule is that unless an attorney is specifically authorized by the client to settle a case, the consent of the client is necessary. Negotiations of an attorney are not binding on the client unless the client has expressly authorized the settlement or the client's voluntary act has placed the attorney in a situation wherein a person of ordinary prudence would be justified in presuming that the attorney had authority to enter into a settlement, not just negotiations, on behalf of the client.  Thus, in private litigation, where the client by words or conduct communicated to the adverse attorney, engenders a reasonable
belief that the attorney possesses authority to conclude a settlement, the settlement may be enforced. However, the attorney's words or acts alone are insufficient to cloak the attorney with apparent authority.

So just because you think your case is settled does not mean it is really settled. 

EQUITABLE DISTRIBUTION - IT DEPENDS

There is no such thing as a normal or typical divorce, every case is different. Sometimes a case I expect to be difficult ends up being easy, while other straightforward cases can sometimes become quite challenging. Equitable distribution is no exception. Different clients have different assets (and debts) to divide – homes, retirement accounts, IRAs, 401(k), Keogh plans, businesses, vacation homes, time shares, art, jewelry, yachts, trusts, and the list can go on and on.   The starting premise is that assets that were owned prior to the marriage are not subject to equitable distribution. However, if that asset is commingled with marital assets it can lose that identity and be subject to equitable distribution. Obviously, this standard can create disagreements with both parties attempting to exclude their assets, but include their former spouse’s assets. 

Recently in an unpublished Appellate Division decision, Mekhail v. Mekhail, App. Div. decided February 2, 2010, the Appellate Decision reviewed a judgment involving equitable distribution and alimony issued following a trial. In Mekhail, plaintiff-wife sued defendant-husband for divorce on October 9, 2007.  The case was tried and judgment was entered on November 21, 2008.  Defendant appealed, arguing that the trial judge erred by: (1) failing to make adequate findings of fact respecting alimony; (2) arbitrarily awarding plaintiff 25% of defendant's retirement account; and (3) directing that each party remain responsible for their own credit card debt.  At trial, plaintiff sought to exclude an IRA account with a $15,000 balance, a retirement account with an $18,000 balance, and a Vanguard account with a $36,000 balance. Plaintiff alleged that these accounts were premarital and not subject to equitable distribution. Meanwhile, defendant had a 401(k) account with a $50,000 balance. Because sufficient evidence was presented to the trial court about the plaintiff’s accounts being premarital, they were not subject to equitable distribution. Yet, the trial judge ordered defendant to give 25% of his 401(k) to plaintiff as part of equitable distribution. Of their joint assets, defendant received about $137,500 and plaintiff received about $112,000.  Given the facts, the Appellate Division did not find the trial judge decision arbitrary and affirmed the decision and equitable distribution. 

 

 Mekhail is an excellent example of how various assets can be subject (or not be subject) to equitable distribution. That is why when people ask about equitable distribution, the only thing I can really say is – “it depends.”

JON & KATE - ARBITRATE!

Last week news broke the Jon and Kate Gossellin, stars of the Lifetime television program “Jon and Kate Plus Eight,” were divorced in Pennsylvania. Judge Arthur Tilson entered an Order making it official.  To read previous blog entries on this celebrity divorce click here.

While many news articles reported that the couple used an arbitrator, few actually differentiated or explained the roll of the arbitrator. Sometimes divorcing couples use an arbitrator to decide issues in a divorce rather than go to the Court. While in New Jersey only a Judge can enter an Order actually divorcing a couple – hence dissolving the marriage, an arbitrator can decide almost any other issue, including alimony, child support, equitable distribution, college expenses, graduate school costs, medical expenses, counsel fees and tax-related issues. (The only caveat is that both parties must agree that the arbitrator has the authority to decide the issue.)

 

In NJ when it comes to custody and parenting time arbitration, there are specific requirements for this process that our Supreme Court has set forth in the Fawzy v. Fawzy matter. To read prior blog entries on this case and arbitration, click here or here.

Divorcing couples will often use an arbitrator in lieu of the Courts because it tends to be quicker and more efficient. Arbitration also provides the parties with the freedom to choose the person who will be deciding their case; can eliminate the necessity of multiple court appearances; and can address sensitive issues, such as unreported income – which couples would not want to make public.

Once a couple decides to use an arbitrator, the arbitrator acts similarly to a judge, deciding the issues of the case. The arbitrator will conduct a hearing (or trial) to decide the key issues and issue a decision. Once the arbitrator issues a decision the couple will go back to Court where a judge will enter the arbitrator’s decision and enter an Order divorcing the couple.

Arbitration can be expensive as you must pay the arbitrator, who is either an attorney or retired judge for his or her time. If arbitration is a consideration for you, its important that you factor in the cost of this process. Just as with anything, there are pros and cons to utilizing an arbitrator. 

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND NEW LAW ENFORCEMENT PROCEDURES

 

When there is an act of domestic violence there is usually (and hopefully) a police report detailing the alleged incident. But what happens when the police officer is the perpetrator of the domestic violence? Well, New Jersey has just issued a new model police department policy for handling domestic violence incidents that involve law enforcement officers. The new policy would apply to all municipal police departments, as well as state and county law enforcement agencies.

According to long-standing New Jersey Attorney General Directives, if a law enforcement officer is found to have committed an act of domestic violence, that officer will have their weapons seized. (Directives 2000-3 and 2000-4). The new model policy is designed to ensure that police departments have in place clear guidelines when investigating domestic violence complaints involving their own officers. The new policy attempts to ensure a thorough fact-finding process that is fair to both domestic violence victims and the accused officers by incorporating the involvement of police chiefs and county prosecutors. The new policy also attempts to prevent any perceived intimidation or bias during investigations.

 

Law enforcement officers have a reputation of protecting one another, no doubt a result of working a dangerous job where they depend on one another for their safety. This type of camaraderie can no doubt foster a public perception that law enforcement officers would be biased during the course of an investigation of one of their own.

The model policy not only addresses remedial steps, but also preventative steps that law enforcement agencies can take to detect and prevent domestic violence, including: background investigations for new employees that would screen out candidates with histories of domestic violence or sexual assault; psychological examinations of all candidates for law enforcement positions and regular annual training on domestic violence issues and the impact of domestic violence within police departments; and supervisors would be trained on how to recognize early warning signs of domestic violence behavior such as excessive or increased use of force on the job, deteriorating work performance, or alcohol/drug abuse.

The new model policy also details incident response protocols, reporting and documentation protocols and recommends that any allegations of domestic violence offenses by high-ranking law enforcement officers - police chiefs or police directors -- be referred to prosecutor’s offices for oversight. While these responses are helpful to law enforcement officers, the new model policy is important if an attorney is involved in the representation of a party where one of the parties is a law enforcement officer. The integrity of a police report at trial or a hearing will be measured by the testimony of the police officer and the protocols that were taken during the investigation. If protocols were followed, under this new policy the police report could be given greater weight and bolster the testimony. If protocols were not followed, the police report and testimony could be found less credible.

APPLICATIONS FOR MODIFICATION OF SUPPORT AWARDS

It is no secret that our country as well as the global economy is in the midst of a downward turn. Jobs are being lost in nearly every industry and the financial world has been turned upside down.

These economic global problems have touched nearly everyone of us. For those who have a financial obligation to support a former spouse or children, the failure to comply with court Orders pertaining to their financial obligations could have dire consequences.

It is not uncommon for a new client to ask, "Will the judge really understand my situation?" or "Am I going to get a break from my financial obligations or will I be spending money on these proceedings in vain?"

Up until recently, this was a question that received different answers from attorneys and judges across this state. The courts had not handed down much guidance on whether they were viewing the current economic crisis as permanent or something temporary that would pass. Attorneys were armed with an understanding of this global problem as it affected their current clients who were in the midst of the divorce process. The stickier question pertained to those individuals who had been divorced for months or even years and could no longer afford to pay that which they agreed or had been ordered to pay.
 

When filing an application to recalculate or terminate a support obligation, it is the burden of the party requesting the change to first prove to the court that the circumstances have changed significantly from the time of the original support obligation Order, that a review is necessary and fair. If the party requesting the change can show changed circumstances, the court can review the support obligations. For child support, the same standard would apply as that which was used originally. The income of the parties (including if alimony is paid), age of the children, and amount of overnight parenting time with the non-custodial parent, are the most common considerations. In cases where applicable, judges will look at other items such as social security or disability benefits, rental income, child care expenses, extraordinary medical expenses, etc.  There is case law, however, that says passage of time can constitute a change of circumstances for child support purposes. 

As for a modification of alimony or spousal support, the court must again consider the circumstances considered at the time of divorce- the age and health of the parties, the length of the marriage, the income of the parties, the assets received by way of equitable distribution, the dependent spouse's needs, the other spouse's ability to pay, and the ability of the dependent spouse to contribute to their own needs. A court is only obligated to follow a settlement agreement to the extent that it is fair.

In an application brought by the payor or supporting spouse for a downward modification or termination of alimony, an issue central to the court's evaluation is the supporting spouse's ability to pay. In order to reach that issue, it is the burden of the supporting spouse to provide the court with sufficient credible evidence as in: an updated Case Information Statement (i.e. detailed financial statement form), pay stubs, tax returns, W-2's, resume, job search, and anything else that can verify the change in their income and its effect on their ability to pay at the current rate.

Finally, the Appellate Division has given some guidance in the recently published matter of Gonzalez-Posse v. Ricciardulli, A-6446-06T3, decided November 9, 2009. In this matter, after 10 years of marriage and 3 children, wife filed for divorce. Both parties were natives of Argentina who were residing in the U.S. on a work visa obtained by the husband, who at the time was working for a large law firm in New York. At the time of the divorce, he was employed by Direct TV Latin America. The last year for his visa arose and Direct TV filed the paperwork to extend the visa. However, in the midst of the divorce's finalization, husband was laid off by Direct TV and they rescinded the application for the extension on his visa. He was given the choice to return to Argentina on his own or be deported.

In the Property Settlement Agreement executed by the parties, support was calculated based upon husband's then income of $150,000 and wife's then income of approximately $21,000. Alimony was agreed upon for a 5 year limited period of time.

Upon his return to Argentina, husband obtained employment in a law firm. With the exchange rate, his income converted to approximately $26,000 U.S. dollars per year. He filed an application to recalculate his child support obligation and terminate his alimony obligation. His ex-wife opposed his application. The trial judge reduced the child support obligation. As for alimony, the judge reduced the weekly sum to be paid but converted the limited duration of 5 years to an obligation of 17 years. Both parties appealed from that Order.

On appeal, the Court found that the recalculation of husband's child support was correct. As for the lower court's ruling on husband's alimony obligation, the Court reversed and remanded to the trial court finding that it was error to extend the term of the alimony obligation and stating that the lower court failed to consider the inconsistencies in wife's income and her ability to contribute to her own financial support.

These applications are very fact sensitive and require attention to detail and a presentation of all the facts to the court so that the judge is not left with any question as to the validity of a paying spouse's change in circumstances.