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TERMINATING ALIMONY FOR TERMINALLY ILL PATIENT, PART 2 – THE SUPPORTED SPOUSE

Posted in Alimony, Modification

Back in October, 2013, I blogged about losing a dear friend and client, Bill*, after his long battle with brain cancer, and unfortunately, also after a long battle with his former wife over his continued alimony obligation to her. (photo courtesy of freedigitalphotos.net) Over the past several months, I received many emails from people who… Continue Reading

TAX COURT RULES HUSBAND’S ALIMONY PAYMENTS ARE REALLY NON-DEDUCTIBLE CHILD SUPPORT

Posted in Alimony, Child Support, Practice Issues

In Johnson v. Commissioner of Internal Revenue, an interesting new decision from the United States Tax Court, a former husband was held unable to deduct the payments to his ex-wife as alimony because the amount of such payment was subject to a “child-related contingency.”  Specifically, the parties’ divorce settlement agreement provided that “spousal maintenance” payments to… Continue Reading

The Matrimonial Millstone: An Exit Strategy from a Detached Defendant

Posted in Alimony, Child Support, Counsel Fee Awards, Divorce, Equitable Distribution, Visitation/Parenting Time

In the early 20th century, Dr. Duncan MacDougall attempted to quantify the mass lost when the soul departed the body upon death. This study has perpetuated the weight idiosyncratically known as “21 Grams.” Although this theory has largely been dismissed by later studies, the better question is: how much weight does your soul bear going… Continue Reading

THE INAPPROPRIATENESS OF LINKING RESOLUTION OF CUSTODY TO RESOLUTION OF FINANCES

Posted in Alimony, Child Support, Custody, Practice Issues, Visitation/Parenting Time

Judges want all issues resolved but especially custody and parenting issues.  No issues are more difficult and heart wrenching to decide – especially when facing a true, bona fide custody dispute (and I am not sure that there are really many of those – but occasionally they occur.) Phote courtesy of freedigitalphotos.net The New Jersey… Continue Reading

WHEN DOES “ENOUGH” MEAN WHAT YOU ARE ENTITLED TO?

Posted in Alimony, Divorce, Equitable Distribution, Practice Issues

When I am representing the payee spouse (frequently also known as the financially inferior spouse, the spouse whose earning capacity pales in comparison to the payor spouse, and the like), I find it interesting when the attorney for the payor spouse tells me that my client should simply be happy with what her soon-to-be former spouse… Continue Reading

Warning: You May Regret Agreeing to Pre-Determined Resolutions for Future Possible Support and Custody Issues

Posted in Alimony, Child Support, College, Modification, Property Settlement Agreements, Visitation/Parenting Time

I am an advocate of resolving divorce and custody disputes and helping my clients make reasonable attempts to avoid judicial intervention.  It is less costly, less lengthy and allows litigants to make their own decisions regarding their children, finances, assets and debts.  However, the motivation for entering into a settlement agreement should not be solely… Continue Reading

SEVEN DEADLY SINS OF DIVORCE: GLUTTONY

Posted in Alimony, Child Support, Custody, Divorce, Domestic Violence, Equitable Distribution, Modification, Other, Practice Issues, Visitation/Parenting Time

A new report in Scientific American Mind suggests that humans who tend to overeat may develop the same patterns of neural activity as drug addicts. For example, in 2006, a physician at substance abuse center in Michigan noticed that many of his patients had recently undergone bariatric surgery to lose weight.  When they succeeded, patients… Continue Reading

DIVORCE “GIFTS” FOR THE EIGHT CRAZY NIGHTS OF HANUKKAH

Posted in Alimony, Custody, Divorce, Interspousal Agreements, Practice Issues

While I never thought that I would be quoting Adam Sandler on this blog, now is as good a time as any.  As he once famously sang, “Hanukkah is the festival of lights.  Instead of one day of presents, we have eight crazy nights.”  My kids are certainly ready to go, already asking what presents… Continue Reading

THE GRAY DIVORCE AND ITS EFFECTS ON YOUR EX’S SOCIAL SECURITY BENEFITS

Posted in Alimony, Divorce, Equitable Distribution, Estate and Trust Issues, Interspousal Agreements, Practice Issues, Property Settlement Agreements

Several weeks ago, I wrote a blog post about “The Gray Divorce” phenomenon now sweeping the nation.  As I highlighted in my blog post, whereas the divorce rate among those 50+ was only 10% in 1990, it is now a staggering 25%. While certainly an interesting statistic and perhaps a telling sociological commentary on the… Continue Reading

DIVORCE RESOURCE: NEVER UNDERESTIMATE THE VALUE OF EXPERTS

Posted in Alimony, Child Support, Civil Unions and Domestic Partnerships, Counsel Fee Awards, Custody, Divorce, Equitable Distribution, Estate and Trust Issues, Practice Issues, Property Settlement Agreements, Resources, Visitation/Parenting Time

Last week, I blogged about the Information Asymmetry and how important it is for you to educate yourself going in to the divorce process so that you can meaningfully assist your attorney with your case.  But what about your attorney? And what about your Judge?  Isn’t it important for them to also be as informed… Continue Reading

THE INFORMATION ASYMMETRY AND THE DIVORCE PROCESS: AN UNLIKELY PAIR

Posted in Alimony, Child Support, Civil Unions and Domestic Partnerships, Counsel Fee Awards, Custody, Divorce, Equitable Distribution, Estate and Trust Issues, Interspousal Agreements, Mediation/Arbitration, Modification, Practice Issues, Prenuptial Agreements, Property Settlement Agreements, Tax Exemption, Visitation/Parenting Time

What do divorce and economics have in common?  Well, a lot. But today I am focusing on the unlikely link between the theory of information asymmetry – which deals with the study of decisions in transactions where one party has more or better information than the other – and the New Jersey Divorce App.  … Continue Reading

ASSET IDENTIFIER: THERE’S A (NEW JERSEY DIVORCE) APP FOR THAT

Posted in Alimony, Child Support, Civil Unions and Domestic Partnerships, College, Counsel Fee Awards, Divorce, Equitable Distribution, Interspousal Agreements, Practice Issues

Today, I am highlighting another feature of our New Jersey Divorce App, the Asset Identifier.  While the “Finance Tracker” gives you the ability to input your more commonly identifiable assets such as your house, car, boat, bank accounts, the Asset Identifier does something a little bit different. It is important when considering what each party… Continue Reading

TERMINATING ALIMONY FOR TERMINALLY ILL PATIENT – EASY, RIGHT? WRONG.

Posted in Alimony, Civil Unions and Domestic Partnerships, Counsel Fee Awards, Divorce, Interspousal Agreements, Modification, Other, Property Settlement Agreements

Recently I lost a dear client and friend, Bill*, after his long battle with brain cancer.  Bill was a man with a kind-hearted spirit and a gentle disposition – one of those “really nice guys” that you just wanted to bend over backwards to help. While Bill was fortunate enough to spend his last days… Continue Reading

Tracking Finances: There’s a (New Jersey Divorce) App For That.

Posted in Alimony, Child Support, Civil Unions and Domestic Partnerships, Cohabitants' Rights, College, Counsel Fee Awards, Custody, Divorce, Equitable Distribution, Estate and Trust Issues, Interspousal Agreements, Mediation/Arbitration, Modification, Other, Practice Issues, Prenuptial Agreements, Privacy and Confidentiality, Property Settlement Agreements, Resources, Tax Exemption, Uncategorized

Oftentimes I hear from clients that gathering their financial information is the most daunting task they will face during the divorce process. They picture being buried in an avalanche of documents, account numbers and canceled checks. The New Jersey Divorce App’s Finance Tracker can help.  In fact, I have recommended it to my clients before,… Continue Reading

DOES GNALL SUGGEST THAT WE SHOULD BE FILING MOTIONS TO GET STAY AT HOME PARENTS BACK TO WORK AT THE BEGINNING OF CASES?

Posted in Alimony, Child Support, Practice Issues, Uncategorized

I have previously blogged about the permanent alimony and lifestyle aspects of the Gnall case decided by the Appellate Division last week.  Gnall had another interesting issue, that is, imputation of income.  More specifically, the case discussed whether income should be immediately imputed to a stay at home parent. *Image courtesy of FreeDigitalPhotos.net In Gnall,… Continue Reading

HOW IS MARITAL LIFESTYLE DEFINED – DOES GNALL HELP WITH THE ANSWER?

Posted in Alimony, Child Support, Practice Issues

Yesterday, I blogged on the Gnall case for the proposition that it appears to say that a 15 year marriage automatically merits permanent alimony.  There were other interesting issues in Gnall too.  Particularly interesting was the discussion of marital lifestyle.  This issue is often vexing, and while there is a lot of discussion regarding marital… Continue Reading

If You Think That You Have a Right To Privacy In Your Tax Returns After a Case is Over, Think Again

Posted in Alimony, Child Support, Modification, Practice Issues

In the typical divorce case, it is rare that parties are forced to turn their tax returns over to the other party year after year.  An exception to the general rule is when the support is being based upon some type of formula which requires income verification, but even then, the income is often, but… Continue Reading