READ CHARLES MEYERS EXCELLENT BLOG POST ON HIGH CONFLICT CUSTODY CASES
Charles Meyer, a partner in our Montgomery County, Pennsylvania office, wrote a terrific post on High Conflict Custody matters on the Pennsylvania Family Law Blog that he edits. The principles in this post apply to New Jersey cases.
To see the post, click here. To view the Pennsylvania Family Law Blog, click here or at the link to the right of the page.
I often tell my clients, that though they may wish to stoop to their spouse's level, that it just isn't worth it and certainly not in the children's best interests. Moreover, if the case is going to be litigated, I want my clients to be "pure as the driven snow" with regard to these issues.
That said, I think that each client going through a custody case should keep a notebook documenting things as they go on. Moreover, save and print provocative emails and text messages and make tape recordings of voice mail messages for future use. As to recordings of conversations, given wiretap and privacy issues, those will be discussed in more detail in a future blog post, and you still must proceed with care.
Good advise about keeping the children's best interest in mind. Also, keeping documentation during any legal proceeding, or in the event of any situation that may eventuate in legal proceedings is a must do.